my boyfriend is in love with me but i am scared to tell him that i love him because i dont want him to take advantage of me. he does the most sweetest things to prove his love to me so should i tell him i love him and open my heart to him or what please help i need real advice no jokes. thank u this will really mean alot
2006-08-20 11:02:53 · 18 answers · asked by ki-ki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him...and (if) he tries to take advantage, tell him to back off. if he truely loves you, he wont do that.
2006-08-20 11:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
KI KI, yes you should tell him from the way it sounds he has won your heart over. you said his actions show you he loves you. don't you want to give him the same courtesy? honey, life doesn't come with guaranties, how we all wish it did but it don't. don't put off tomorrow what you can do today, because tomorrow may never come. just something to think about. the rest is up to you. now if you don't tell him then, what if he decides you are not serious about him. it could be over. I don't know your age either, and that could have some baring on this situation as well.
good luck and all the happiness life can offer you
2006-08-20 18:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are afraid he will take advantage of you. If you do not know him well enough yet to know for sure then why is he your boyfriend. I am not trying to be nasty, but it is a REALLY bad idea to call I guy you don't trust your boyfriend. The name "boyfriend" signifies trust. Obviously, you were afraid of calling him this yet you did. We cannot help you without knowing more about your situation. I suggest you get CLOSER to your "boyfriend" as you call him. I do not think you are close enough to call that name yet. When you are close enough, you should be able to either trust or not. Then you will not have to ask this question. Sorry, but that is my two cents. Hope that helps.
2006-08-20 18:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you love him then you should tell him. Don't play games with each other. There is a great book called "What to do Until Love Finds You" by Michelle Hammond. It is a great guide to dating and until you find your husband. Good Luck!
2006-08-20 18:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think he really means it then tell him well tell him you love him and if he shows that he really loves you then you know he isn't gon take advantage of you so tell him and if u think he is taking advantage of you, then break up or talk to him
2006-08-20 18:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him?
If you're really afraid he might take advantage of you, then you don't really believe he loves you. You don't take advantage of someone you truly love.
Go slow.
2006-08-20 18:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to have to decide if you are ready to take that plunge or not. yes, you could risk getting hurt in the end, but if he's in love with you too. you won't be the only hurt if you all break up. but if you don't, it could be a very good risk, worth taking. he could be the love of your life. good luck!
2006-08-20 18:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him, you should tell him how you really feel. But tell him your boundaries. Dont let him push you. Every guy does sweet things, if they really love you that is. So he loves you, just tell him how you feel.
2006-08-20 18:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by lilshorty347 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him you love him would not be reasoning for him to take advantage of you.
If he was that type of guy...you can always dump him.
But is it fair to him NOT to say I love you?
2006-08-20 18:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by pinkstealth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel it, say it. if your gonna keep worrying about being hurt then you will never fully appreciate what love is all about. everyone gets hurt, thats part of love. open up your heart..........
2006-08-20 18:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋