How will I ever meet people i work extremly unsociable hours so i finish and start work in the middle of the night this makes it very hard to meet anyone do any nice ladies have this problem maybe hospital or care workers? Im 36 M London area
2006-08-20 10:55:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you probably sleep during the day, right? Well, there are a lot of options if you are willing to be creative.
It may be that a dating service will be a good bet. Many people find valuable companionship this way. Not every date will be a winner, but it can help with social skill. Don't sell yourself short.
Also, I'm sure you go to the market and such. Just start chatting people up. I know its easier said than done but practice makes perfect. You're trying to make friends. That's first, then maybe more. Don't worry about coming off weird, you're just a potential friend saying hello. And, if you do happen to come off weird, don't sweat it. Other people's casual opinions cannot damage you. Just pick a hottie without a ring and say hello. Practicpracticepractice!
Hmm what else?
Join a book club, Frequent a local cafe and hunt there, maybe go back to school.
Hope some of this helps. Know you're the man without being cocky and you'll win eventually! Birds love confidence. Cheers!
2006-08-20 11:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Zorb the alien 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi! Iam a full time nanny who works long hours, and sometimes 24/7. I. found the phone lines are O.K. You can talk to people without the awkwardness of meeting and then after talking a few times you meet. The disadvantage of this is people say they are one way and are totally the opposite when you meet them. But at least I am able to get out once in awhile. I figure I am a great catch for the right person and eventually he will come. Im 34 from Indiana!!!-Good Luck
2006-08-20 18:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by stephynanny 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It can be hard but here is a tip: do you go shopping? lot's of single people have to eat! You are a man...but don't go looking for your fantasy, look for a real woman. Good luck!
2006-08-20 18:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by lionesscubbs 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe if u chill on the weekends or take a day off youll actually meet someone life isnt all about work
2006-08-20 18:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by sxyltchiqi 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Open your front door and go for a walk. They are all over the place
2006-08-20 18:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by thecharleslloyd 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Switch off your computer and go out to a bar.
2006-08-20 18:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by flaked_rice 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go out whenever you can and go up to them and say hello.
It's a good start.
2006-08-20 18:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by JeffE 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With my great chat up lines.
2006-08-20 18:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by jonibobs 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wtf is a chat up line??
2006-08-20 18:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋