there is this guy who has a fat and ugly live in girlfriend. I am beautiful with a tantalizing bod, and I want this one guy, I want to seduce just to get him into bed. He says he is in love with her and wants nothing to do with me. All I see it as, is a challenge. I know he finds me attractive, and that is all it takes.
2006-08-20 10:53:40 · 20 answers · asked by Britney O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop bein immoral and just stp!
2006-08-20 10:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by volllballgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS YOUR SEXUALITY ALL YOU HAVE TO ATTRACT GUYS WITH? TOO BAD, IF THAT'S ALL YOU HAVE GOING FOR YOU.
YOU MUST HAVE REALLY LOW SELF ESTEEM IF YOU NEED TO GET BACK AT THIS GIRL BY TRYING TO DISTRACT HIS ATTENTION AWAY FROM HER....AND RUIN THEIR RELATIONSHIP.
DO OTHER WOMEN INTIMIDATE YOU? DO YOU COMPARE YOURELF TO THEM AND FEEL LIKE YOU LACK SOMETHING? DO YOU FEEL THE NEED TO "PROVE" THAT YOU ARE MORE WORTHY AND SPECIAL? DO YOU ALWAYS NEED TO TRY TO HURT THEM?
IF YOU WERE ABLE TO, RUIN THEIR REALTIONSHIP AND SEDUCE HIM, WOULD THAT GIVE YOU THE EGO POINTS YOU NEED...WOULD IT MAKE YOU FEEL MORE POWERFUL AND WORTHY?
I DON'T THINK THAT WOULD DO IT FOR YOU. YOU WOULD PROBABLY NEED TO DO THAT TO EVERY GUY YOU ENCOUNTER THAT HAS ALREADY CHOSEN A PARTNER, OR HAS REJECTED YOU. YOU ARE A BOTTOMLESS PIT.
YOU PROBABLY DIDN'T GET THE LOVE AND AFFECTION THAT YOU NEEDED FROM YOUR OWN FATHER. MAYBE THAT'S WHO YOU CRAVE MALE ATTENTION AND APPROVAL TO BOOST YOUR LOW SELF ESTEEM.
WHY DON'T YOU TRY TO MASTER A TALENT OR SKILL, LEARN SOMETHING NEW, AND ACCOMPLISH A GOAL TO BUILD YOURSELF UP. IT WOULD GIVE YOU SOMETHING MORE ABOUT YOURSELF TO VALUE BESIDES YOUR SEXUALITY. IT WOULD ALSO MAKE YOU MORE INTERESTING. SALSA DANCING IS PRETTY HOT, AND IT STAYS WITH YOU LONGER THAN WHEN YOUR LOOKS FADE. KARATE IS HOT, TOO, AND SO IS LEARNING A FOREIGN LANGUAGE.....
ALL GIRLS CAN HAVE SEX WITH GUYS. WHAT WOULD MAKE YOU ANY DIFFERENT THAN THE NEXT DIME-A-DOZEN "BICYCLE"? WHAT UNIQUE AND SPECIAL THING DEFINES YOU, SPECIFICALLY? ANYBODY CAN F**K. WHAT'S SO SPECIAL ABOUT THAT?
I AM SORRY, THAT MUCH TRUTH MIGHT HURT TO HEAR.
I AM ALSO SORRY THAT YOU HAVE TO PUT OUT TO MAKE GUYS LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE INTIMIDATED BY THEIR GIRLFRIENDS....THAT THAT IS THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE GOING FOR YOU.
2006-08-20 11:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ther are so many guys out there.why not get urs?or u scared of committin or wot?its better u get ur respect than to have aguy shun you.wud u feel better if someone was doing that to ur own guy?nomatter how fat n ugly you looked?
2006-08-20 11:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a home wrecker...find someone who wants your goodies and stay away from that guy. Kudos to him for giving you the brush off. He doesn't want your gonnorhea and anything else you might be carrying around...geez
2006-08-20 11:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is in love with someone and tells you he wants nothing to do with you, move on, why are you wasting your time there are plenty of men out there. Face it - he isn't interested in you.
2006-08-20 11:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your delusional!! he already told you he loves his girl and doesn't want you. don't make an even bigger fool of yourself. leave him alone. it's just another example of looks don't count in the long term. descrbing his girlfriend as fat and ugly only makes you seem ugly. maybe thats another reason he rejected you?
2006-08-20 11:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure YOU'RE not the fat and ugly one? Becuase if that's why no wonder he doesn't want anything to do with you.
2006-08-20 10:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by mathura529@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. There is so many good looking available men, so why are you wasting your time with unavailable.
Are you afraid of commitment?
2006-08-20 10:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no baby it takes more then just looks. if shes there for him, satisfies him, shows him affection, shows she wants and appreciate him if he truly loves her u wont be able to step in even if your the finest in the world.
2006-08-20 11:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by warrior*in*the*making 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you found your answer. Why are you wasting time here fishing for compliments or "advice"? Just do what you set your mind to do.
2006-08-20 11:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just let him be. Would you want someone to do that to you?? I am one to appreciates a good challenge too, but when they tell us no. we must stop.
2006-08-20 10:59:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋