2006-08-20 10:48:37 · 22 answers · asked by rexford m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love isnt something you can describe. it's something you ffeel deep down inside you. You will know when you ind true love
2006-08-20 11:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You MUST develop yourself to the fullest, define what makes you tick and passionate, and you must become extremely successful in your career.
It is only when your career is in full swing and you are really making a greater success of yourself that the right people show up. Otherwise, you are infatuated only. Bars bring on alcoholic irresponsible jerks. Clubs too. A great dancer and the right lines do not mean love and successful marriages.
Do not mix up great sex with love. They are two distinct and separate entities. Sex is to reproduce the species only. It is not love. Love is something else. Sex can improve with real love and intimacy. If you are in lust, it is not love. If someone is bad to you, you do not want sex with them unless you are delusional and are using them too, or if you mistakingly think that a great orgasm will make someone stay or change.
If you find yourself thinking about someone all the time or close to it within tow months of when you first met, that person might not be good for you. You COULD lose yourself in that person.
If you are a giver to those you lust, then learn to be less available and more equality demanding. You have the right to be treated well and decently. That does not mean lavishly. It means honestly with respect. And it goes both ways.
If you are the type who takes crap, stop taking crap early on, and you will avoid lots of pain.
Do you go for glitz and the great dressers? Stop. Are you a caretaker type who rescues? Stop that now. If you are a perfectionist who emotionally picks on lovers, stop it now. If you always criticize your lovers for small things and they leave you, stop it now. I know no specifics about your situation, but do know it takes two to tango.
Forget the multitude of books. They will mostly confuse you except the short Robert Johnson trio of books: He, She and We.
I have learned about boundaries. I have the feeling you know nothing about them. This is great to learn. There is a great book on the subject called Boundaries. It is a thick non-religious book on the subject, a soft cover, /Ph DO written. Don't Say Yes When You Want to Say No is another great book.
Do workshops, read lots of self help books, do The Forum ( Landmark Education Corporation), etc. I think therapy was the biggest waste of time. Reading great books is therapy, because we learn about our own weaknesses and learn self improvement.
BTW: Love is caring and sharing. Adding romance is romantic love. It's very simpole.
2006-08-20 18:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in love any more (as in between 2 people in a relationship) , it's eluded me for far too long! I know you shouldn't ever give up on love but how do you not when it's been missing for so long?
I love people though, like my parents and my family and friends but that's a different type of love. That's a love that makes you feel like you belong and knows no boundaries.
2006-08-20 17:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by sammydog_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love to me is complete happiness with another human that God created for you. The first person you think of in the morning and the last person you think of at night. I do believe in love and I only hope that we all experience in this life.
2006-08-20 17:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by fire84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love definitely exists, I've not been in love yet because I haven't found the right person, but I know it will happen eventually. Witnessed enough people who are in love to know it does exist and is out there. My mate's brother summed up what it's like to be in love pretty well....he said if he's apart from his gf he feels sick and upset and just doesn't feel right until he is with her again.
2006-08-20 18:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love means different things to different people, but when you are in Love you know it, it's not a thought thing, it's physical, it's part of you and you just KNOW, even if it's the very first time.
2006-08-20 17:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Robert E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do believe in love. It's when you hit the G spot and she screams out in extreme pleasure. That's is love.
2006-08-20 17:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is an emotion... like any emotion you get over it. I beleive that some love last for a life time, being IN LOVE last until you fall in love again!
2006-08-20 17:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by GODIS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Describing love is a little like describing a breath, its one of those things that you recognise when it happens, its different from infatuation.
I'm not 'in love' but I certainly believe that it exists, however I don't think that there is only one match for each of us in our life
2006-08-20 17:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is finding your soul's counterpoint in another...and yes, I do believe its out there. Just wading through the sea of morons and losers kinda makes you wonder from time to time if its best to just be single...lol
2006-08-20 17:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋