I so totally like this one guy in my grade. We've been like best friends 4 ever and I like him more than that. I wanna tell him, but I don't think I should cuz it could ruin our friendship and all. So yeah, what should I do?
2006-08-20 10:20:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OOOK I know it maybe really hard, but you should tell him, he is your best friend like you said so if he's a true best friend something like this shouldnt get in the way of your friendship IF he doesnt feel the same way... but think about how happy you could be if it worked out and he likes you too ... Try and see. .. do some investigative work by asking help from friends or with words (hinting to him that you want to hang out alone or something)
2006-08-20 10:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and tell you friend that you like him and all.and when you say it set him a side and tell him that what ever i say i dont want this to ruin our friendship. tell him that, that is the most important thing. when you tell him you wanna look him in the eyes and just take a DEEP breath and tell him. you said that you guys have been bestfriends forever then this definately shouldnt ruin a friendship you know. and what ever he says you smile at him.
2006-08-20 17:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by teamo1224430 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look to the signs he gives you. If he just want friends, or making moves or telling things that makes clear he also want to have more.
if it isn't clear try to ask in a carefull way. Not being to enthousiast. It may scare him off and rune your friendship. But make clear what ever he feels for you, that you don't want to loose your friendship. That your friendship comes first. ANdif he doesn't feel the same accept it. Don't tell maybe this or maybe that. Time can only tell.
2006-08-20 17:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by ngatinicostes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many people fall for their best friends...Maybe you should wait it out because it might just be a crush. If its not, let him tell you how he is feeling. You don't want to trow away a good friendship over a crush!! Trust me, its happened to me!
2006-08-20 17:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him...or ask if he feels more then jus being "best friends"....if he dont like it then be cool wit it dont get mad or nothin be relaxed cuz theres more guyz and u probably dont lik no one else but u'll get over him or at least try to.....it not easy cuz ive been thruogh the same thing..well accept that he wasnt my best friend but then he went away cuz of he stupid *** bringing drugs to skool...but the point is tell him before u dont get to see him anymore
2006-08-20 17:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by sucks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already the best friends - that is a lot.
Don't worry you can't loose him. Make some fun and just tell hem - but must be some spontaneous moment.
2006-08-20 17:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell the guy! If you want , you can ask him out... then let him take over from there.. If you go out with him, somehow you will get to feel if he feels the same way or not? so, take it slow...observe for the meantime.
2006-08-20 17:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Keepingmycool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM OUT!!!!! Don't worry about it ruining the friendship, if it does, he isn't a true friend anyway.
2006-08-20 17:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if u can ask one if his friends to find out,
or check his body language, when hes with u, if he's tense that probaly means he's nervous which proably means he likes u
or u could just ask him,
if hes a real friend he'll understand
2006-08-20 17:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by billy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out ...if it don't work out then u 2 will be uncomfortable for a while but later u can look back on it and laugh
2006-08-20 17:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by im lost come and find me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋