Ok! So here's the deal. My last few dates have turned to boyfriends who are horrible, so as a result I'm not that great at opening up to guys. Anyway, I'm talking to this guy who is amazing, we've been talking for about a month now but we've been cool for a little while. We'll talk on the phone about everything for hours, send text messages, etc. When I don't talk to him, I miss it. I'm trying not to have feelings for him, but I do--and he's actually been very open with me about his feelings for me. I feel bad because I can't do the same, but the truth is I am crazy about him. I don't want him to think that I am not interested in him, because I am. What should I do?
2006-08-20 10:16:41 · 9 answers · asked by glittergirl9221 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i will quote what u said
"the truth is I am crazy about him."
u said it not me....so if u really r crazy about him move to the next step if he feels the same u
2006-08-20 10:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by diein2hard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I've been talking to this guy for a bout a month as well and everything is great. The thing is I've also been in bad past relationships where I've always been cheated on and I trust this guy and all but I can't hel it when I start to think of who he's with and if he's flirting and stuff like that especially when he lives out of state. I really love him and I hope the insecurity I have at times doesn't ruin this relationship because I want to make this guy really happy. I love him to death! He's a great guy. I would say to you trust him, and show you're interested because you really are. Don't spoil a good realationship.
2006-08-20 10:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by jestelap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know.. if he likes u, and if u are crazy about him, then u should just go along with whatever ur heart desires... i am sure u dont want to be alone for the rest of your life, and as a result, u will just have to learn to trust guys. although, a lot of times u may end up with some horrible boyfriends, once in a while, u'll find someone with whom u are compatible with... and if u dont express ur feelings to him soon, he might think that u are only looking at him as a friend, and he might start looking elsewhere for a relationship
2006-08-20 10:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by James B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be straight to him and tell him how you feel. Coz if you don't, sooner or later, he'll think you're not into him, and move on. You have to say how you feel in order to get what you want. And I assume you want to be with him, right?
So, what are you waiting for? Send him a message and tell him how you feel, tell him that you like him.
2006-08-20 10:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by miraob86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have something there. Don't let it slip through your fingers. Forget bad dates, dating is practice.
2006-08-20 10:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that you've had bad relationships in the past but that you want to see more of him & take it slow
2006-08-20 10:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Cina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If instinct outdoes your logical standpoint, it probably means your instinct is right.
2006-08-20 10:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this life, always go for wat u want or else "regret" will be your middle name for life. the fact that it didnt work out one time dosent mean u have a sticker on failure. go out there and take the bull by the horn.
2006-08-21 02:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by kalik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to suck it up, and open yourself to him. Otherwise, ten years from now, you could be thinking about what could have been.
2006-08-20 10:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋