Out last night and i bumped in to an ex of mine who was out with her friends, We used to go out two years ago and have seen her out and about with her new bloke a few times in the last six months, We had a drink and a few laughs and it was not until later in the evening that she suggested that we share a cab home as she is enroute to mine. When we got to her flat she asked if i wanted to come in, we had a few more drinks and then started to fool around on the sofa, I stopped things and she said that it was okay as her B/F was away for the weekend with his mates.
I left with nothing else happening and since i left she has called and texted several times asking me to go round there as he is not back until Wednesday.
A large proportion of me is saying dont go round there, but another is saying go as there shall be no reprocussions !!!
So in the immortal words of the clash " Should i stay or should i go now ? "
2006-08-20 09:49:18 · 18 answers · asked by Ross B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT DO IT!!! I have sent a small aeroplane to fly over your gaff with a huge banner saying "Don't be a Plonker Wossie!"
You know it's true!!
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Better to be a happy singleton than a cheat's bit of stuff!!! Stay at home playing your Clash collection - otherwise you could be led astray and the "cuckold" might discover what has been going on. It will lead to misery and pistols at dawn old chap!
2006-08-21 04:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay.
First of all why did you two break up and is that reason still possibly applicable?
Second, you don't know why she wants you to come over - maybe she just wants sex and - as her boyfriend is away - as she ran into you, you'll do.
Third: who knows? perhaps it's a bit of a set-up. OR somewhere down the road, the girl and her B/F will have an argument to which she'll throw your bit o'fun into his face.
Four: you know yourself that you should not go, and are asking us to give you moral support.
Don't Go.
2006-08-20 16:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by kerangoumar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to that 'large proportion'. It's there for a reason. Of course there will be repercussions.
Just keep reminding yourself:
"If I go there will be trouble...."
2006-08-20 19:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically, there is nothing immoral about going over to her place; she is being immoral if she invites you over, knowing that she has a boyfriend.
If she wnats you to come, she obviously has feelings for you again. She has obviously chosen she doesnt care much for her boyfriend. If you would like to get back together with her, by all means go.
2006-08-20 16:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Great shot!... that first instance. Now, try reversing the situation (you be the BF and your GF goes shucking around each corner while you're away) and check how you would feel and think.
2006-08-20 16:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Bummerang 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her.
How would you feel if you had a g/f who did this while you were out of town?
2006-08-20 16:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by Val 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go, how would you feel if you were the boyfriend she wants to cheat on?
2006-08-20 16:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by wolfsbane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I CAN'T TELL U HOW 2 LIVE UR LIFE BUT IF I WAS U I WILL KEEP AS FAR AS POSSIBLE FROM HER
2006-08-20 17:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by rexford m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go. And you spelled moral wrong.
2006-08-20 16:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you go there may be trouble, if you stay it maybe double!
2006-08-20 16:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋