I know ive posted this before, but i dont seem to be getting alot of answers
so please answer
There is this guy in my school that i think might ask me out soon, becuz of all the "signs" and becuz alot of answers to my other questions said that he probably will....
BUT, my problem is that if he DOES ask me out, I don't know if I should say yes or no
Part of me says no and Partof me says Yes....
i dont know what to do.. i know i didnt give u alot of information, but im just confused...
and PLEASE, just put the fact that im only 13 ASIDE.. just pretend im a different age, i really dont want answers including ur too young.. please
2006-08-20 09:48:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do u like him
if u like him say yes
if u dont want to only b/c of what other ppl say
dont listen to them listen to ur heart
i know that sounds cheezy but ur heart is like important
so listen to it
hope this helps:)
2006-08-20 10:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by whycantifly74 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's kinda hard to answer this one because there isn't much info. First, how is this guy? Is he someone that you would be interested in going on a date with? Would your parents approve of him? If part of you is saying yes, while the other part is saying no, then there's a reason for that. You're having doubts about this guy for some reason....now think about what the reasons are? Then, outweigh the pros and cons of going out with him, and if the cons outweigh the pros, then just say no. Also, considering the fact that you mentioned you're only 13, you would probably have to consult with your parents before making a decision about this as well. Do they approve of you dating? I'm sure they would want to meet him first, so is this the type of guy that you'd feel comfortable with your parents meeting him? If so, then go for it, but if not, you might want to think long and hard about making a decision. My first instinct was to tell you to follow your heart, but I am a witness to the fact that following your heart doesn't always lead to the best judgement. Just make sure that whatever you do, don't let him or your friends pressure you into making any abrupt decisions. Use your head. Good luck! :)
2006-08-20 09:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon83 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your still very young so I know how important boys might seem to you right now. I wouldnt stress and worry about "IF" he might ask you out. Just wait till he does and then decide if you like him enough to want to go out with him. If you like him say yes, if you dont really like him say thanks but not right now. You are only 13 so you do have plenty of time to think about boys. Dont rush things, enjoy being a kid, you will miss it later when your taking care of screaming kids and dont have time for yourself. Good luck
2006-08-20 10:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by scorpio2644865 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be 9 but u seem very mature for ur age so I say go for it. You'll never know what to expect or what sort of person he really is unless you give him a chance so go out with him. If he's a nice guy then all should go well but if he just wants to use u then let him go.
2006-08-20 10:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's nice guy, go out with him. If he's not so nice and he's old (like 18) he might take your virginity away in just one first night. So If you think he deserves a date, give him a date.
2006-08-20 09:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by AlvaDaGansta 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him say yes no matter what your age! I'm 13 too!!
so i know!
2006-08-20 10:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by GilmoreGirl24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wont start w/ your to young....lol But you are you have alot of life to live and a lot of boys to date along the way...... And be carefull if you do date....... :)
2006-08-20 09:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first time i've seen your question.i'm a guy and i say go for it.if it all goes wrong first meeting just dont have a second!
2006-08-20 10:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋