why? I dont get it I love this girl very much and she knows it . We have A past together and a son whose is almost 13 . Some good and some bad . It seems when we get along we get along real good, But the more I want it(Relationship) the more she backs away ,But If I back away and pursue other relationships she seems to be around all of a sudden all lovey dovey again and I always fall for it . Then as soon as I put effort into pursueing a relationship with her she all of a suddden stops coming around as much and acting real weird . what the f*** ! Is this one of those things u always want what u cant have or what ?
2006-08-20 09:44:02 · 4 answers · asked by mikdwg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she only wants you when you are chasing after someone else. I have seen this type of person before. As long as she knows she has you over a barrell(at her beck and call) shes gonna keep you at arms length. I know you care about her and all, but if she cant commit to you and keeps pushing you away then you need to deicde if you want to keep living this way. I would suggest you take some time away from her and date other people, maybe once she sees you arent living for her, she might come around. If not then you were never meant to be and should move on. Good luck
2006-08-20 09:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by scorpio2644865 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sound like to me she just wonts you when someone else has you. Seems like you 2 have had a long past having a 13 yr old child involed. And after all these years if it's the same ole than your not ever going to get anywhere with her in a relationship between the 2 of u. I would leave her the hell alone. Sounds like she's just twisting your heart a lil more each time and stomping on it................
2006-08-20 09:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She apparently doesn't want you, but doesn't want anyone else to have you either. How long are you going to allow her to manipulate your happiness? Is this how you want your 13yr old son to grow up thinking is normal relationships? You have a responsibility to yourself to not settle, and no matter how much you "love" this person, she doesn't love you back. Move on, she's not worth your time.
2006-08-20 09:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat her like sh!t and shell be licking your feet
2006-08-20 09:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by wett_lips_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋