Why dont Men like Old-Fashioned type Girls?

Question

Why dont Men Like Old-Fashioned Girls?

I am a very traditionally centered gal, I dress lady like but
i cover myself up and dont dress slutty. I am very feminine
I like being taken out, I love honoring my man and being
taken care of. I also believe in waiting until marraige as it
was traditionaly done, and developing the emotional
relationship first, as i feel it is more important in
the long run.

However i get the impression in our society that there
is no place for a young feminine modest gal like me.
I would think most men would love to have a woman
stay home and cook and clean for them and be lady
like. (i am 24 btw)

Answer 1

You are a jewel in the rough, my dear. Don't think for a minute that there isn't a guy out here that would trip over himself to find a young lady like you. The internet isn't the best place to be looking but...I know there are a lot of men who will appreciate a woman with the values and desires that you possess!

Answer 2

I like old fashioned type ladies. My wife is such a lady. i work away from home, sometimes for weeks and it is so reassuring to me that I can trust her to an honorable woman. I guess my only problem is that in the sex department, she can be a little "bland" for lack of a better term. I prefer a lady in public and a freak at home. i don't mean anything sinful, but I do enjoy different things. We talk about everything and because she is an honorable lady, she has endulged some of my fantasies. I think as long as your willing to bless your man at home, I say go girl, be old fashioned.

Answer 3

Well i just want to say stay that way. It's a good thing and a good woman is hard to find. But most men are not looking for that,It's a try it before you buy it type of world to day.And it's hard to find a man that can appreciate that in a women be it that most are looking to get there ***** wet asap. But there is some one out here that will see the virtue in you.

Answer 4

i think u get that feeling because well its kinda true. i dont mean that their isnt a place for a girl like u, there is. i just mean that with the way guys today think is 'ok i can have a girl that yes i may care about but she wont give it up until marriage, and shes very old-fashioned'... OR 'i can have a girl that dresses hot and will **** around with me n bed and this and that'.. of CORSE most of them r going to take the second one. but their isnt anything wrong with u. just means u'll have to search extra hard to find that guy that will ultimately make u happier in the end.

Answer 5

Hmmm. I dont think its a matter of whether men like you or not. They might just see the way you dress and view you as not thier type, or too snooty. There isnt anything wrong with the way you feel or the way you dress, its just that guys like exiting girls... and its hard to view someone dressed up as exiting. Dont you want a man that can make you laugh, enjoy yourself with, and enjoy thier company? Men want that too, but they see that in girls who dress that way. You can dress "exiting" without being immodest. Get a pair of blue jeans and a nice casual shirt and that might take you a long way.

Answer 6

Stop defining society by what you see on TV or the internet. Most girls my daughters associate with, (your age), have self respect, so you are not unusual.

However, you are going to have a great deal of trouble in today's world finding a man of your own age that can afford to keep a wife at home, unless it is done traditionally in your culture or religion. Most modern girls understand that you cannot just sit by and be completely dependent on someone else because things happen in life like death and disease, or he just finds someone else and leaves you. Stop living in a fairyland and have something to offer to support a household.

However keep it in your plans to stay at home with children they come, every mother should if she wants to and can afford to.

Answer 7

There are lots of OLD fashion men out there to, maybe you are just looking in the wrong places. I know I enjoy opening doors for the lady, and treating a good lady very well.

Answer 8

Hang in there
Society is beating you up
Guys are out there

I am handsome and successful I had a hard time finding a traditional girl. I found one
and i have married a her and now we will have our 6 th daughter and my wife is as beutiful today as the day i met her.
Hang in there and pray

Answer 9

i like old fashioned girls who i can love and respect. however, the whole waiting until marriage this is as good as dead. if i'm going to go out with someone for several months without any physical intimacy, it will drive me away from the relationship. that's just how it goes. i'm not saying that you should throw away your values, but that sometimes it's better if you compromise than to set yourself up as this bastion of the proper feminine. if you do that, you may very well be setting yourself up for disappointment.

Answer 10

I would NOT like my girl to "stay home and cook and clean for them..."
There's a world out there... go grab it, meet it, get to know it. Enjoy it... Marriage is a "partnership between equals", and it changes through time... I don't disgree with the rest but GET rid of the last paragraph!!!