My boyfriend is coming home on R & R from Iraq in a couple of weeks. I want to surprize him with something romantic.
2006-08-20 09:22:04 · 7 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take him directly from the airport to a hotel with a hot tub and a chocolate fountain with a plate of fruit. Throw in some whip cream and off course a bottle of good wine.
2006-08-20 09:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
SHOW SOME EMPATHY FOR WHAT HE HAS BEEN THROUGH, WHAT HE HAS SEEN, WHAT HE HAS HAD TO DEAL WITH, AND HOW HE HAS HAD TO LIVE. DO YOU THINK THAT HE LOOKS FORWARD TO SURPRISES? I WOULD THINK NOT. BEING OVER THERE IN A WAR HAS TAUGHT HIM THAT SURPRIES MEAN DANGER.....DUH. HE PROBABLY CRAVES NORMAL, MUNDANE, AND PREDICTABLE. THOSE ARE LUXURIES HE HAS MISSED OUT ON FOR A WHILE....
DON'T IMPOSE ANYTHING ON HIM AND EXPECT HIM TO LIKE IT. THE MILITARY LIFE HAS ALREADY TAKEN HIS FREEDOM, HIS CHOICES, AND FORCED HIM TO ACCEPT THINGS ALREADY. BEING OUT IN POPULATED PLACES MIGHT BE UNCOMFORTABLE, AND YOU TWO MIGHT MISS OUT ON THE QUALITY ATTENTION YOU NEED TO GIVE EACH OTHER.
JUST PAMPER HIM A LITTLE. RUB HIS FEET WITH LOTION AND LET HIM ENJOY BEING ABLE TO CHOOSE THINGS FOR HIMSELF. LET HIM HAVE THE REMOTE CONTROL. LET HIM PICK THE MOVIE. LET HIM GET WHATEVER HE NEEDS TO, OFF HIS CHEST WITHOUT JUDGING HIM. DO NOT TRY TO PRY ANYTHING OUT OF HIM, LET HIM DOWNLOAD AT HIS OWN PACE.
DON'T SHOW THAT YOU HAVE HIGH EXPECTATIONS, SEXUALLY, EITHER. MAKE IT ALL ABOUT HIM FOR A LITTLE WHILE. DON'T CRITICIZE HIM OR GIVE HIM PERFORMANCE ANXIETY. HE HAS GOTTEN USED TO TAKING CARE OF HIMSELF AS QUICKLY AND QUIETLY AS POSSIBLE FOR A WHILE NOW. IF YOU EXPECT TOO MUCH, YOU SET HIM UP TO FAIL. NO GUY WANTS TO BE A FAILURE.
SHOW HIM UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND AFFECTION. ACCEPT AND APPRECIATE HIM AND HIS EFFORT.
BEING SECURE ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL FOR HIM, AND THAT YOU ARE 100% BEHIND HIM ALL THE WAY, IS THE SWEETEST AND BEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE HIM, OH, AND THE FREEDOM TO CHOOSE WHAT HE WANTS TO DO.
2006-08-20 16:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl my man was in Iraq as well. When he came home I had all his favorites waiting, from the kitchen all the way to the bedroom. Hint-hint.lol
2006-08-20 16:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by hot.sassy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
o sweety thats really nice look a romantic dinner at your house a red table cloth red candles a cake that say 2 my hero a little present ! lots of hugs kises ! be in the dark i can help u out my email is dioselizabethazul@sbcglobal.net
2006-08-20 16:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to include his family, like a party, after they leave, you give him a nice hot bath. play some jazz, give him a nice massage, and eat strawberries his chest. and the rest is history, (smile)
2006-08-20 16:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lock the doors, pull the shades, and spend the entire day naked.
2006-08-20 16:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't show up when he arrives. that will surprise him. j/k seriously though, throw a big bash for him. then send everyone home early and really show him how happy you are to see him.
2006-08-20 16:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by xknyghtmayre 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋