i have a hot date and i am very confused about where to go i need a femals answer
2006-08-20 09:21:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually I think you mean the girl you are taking out is hot, not the date (I don't judge a date as hot [or not] until after the date ends)
Saying that, I think that you should take her to a place that has some people in it, so that you can see how she acts around others (good social skills rock!) and also so you won't have to do a lot of talking.
I happen to love people and if i went out with a guy that made snide remarks about everyone we came across, I wouldn't want to date him.
However, it sounds like you are not that interested in seeing how her social skills are as opposed to how you can impress her.
Maybe to you, impressing a "hottie" might lead to other things.
In that case, whatever you do, wherever you take her, be funny and not real serious. Ask her a lot about her...not just the sexual stuff...stuff about her interests (they might match yours, you never know.)
I know I wrote a lot, but I was trying to cover at least most of my bases.
Good luck to you!
2006-08-20 09:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Dune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it simple man. Whatever you do keep it short. Showing her too much attention on a first date will chase her off. Do something thats interactive... such as an art gallery, or a science center and then a coffee afterward. You will want to continue the night if its going well, but if you can... stop the date early and say you will call her in a week and make her wonder whether you liked her or not. Women love to think about whether people like them or not, so keep it up as long as it takes.
2006-08-20 16:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by Slick Mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know from her interests - dinner and a movie is always a safe, but boring event.
Try to find out what she likes doing (from a friend or something or ask her!) and do that. That will be much more impressive than an expensive resturant.
I also second the flowers suggestion although roses may be overkill for a first date.
2006-08-20 16:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Someone Else 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her bein hot has nothin to do wit where ur gonna take her sweetie....if she has a nice personality it won't matter to her....why don't u take her someplace where u both could have alotta fun or somewhere very romantic??? and when ur on the date...be urself but also a gentleman but don't be uptight about it...be relaxed....its a date so u should be havin fun!!!! buy her flowers and include a sweet note from the heart....i'm sure she'll like it.....well...good luck....hope all goes well with ur date.....
2006-08-20 16:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by Trinity A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her somewhere fun, DONT do a fancy restraunt for the first date. Fancy will just make you both nervous. A medium priced restraunt, arcade or carnival if that is her style. I would just gauge what she would like. Don't go for sports games either, unless you are positive that she likes that stuff.
2006-08-20 16:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to dinner, her choice. Maybe a movie afterward. If you take her home, she might ask you to come inside and you guys can "talk". LoL Good Luck!
2006-08-20 16:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cocoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be a gentleman,open the car door for her.Then take her to a nice dinner.Bring her roses She will be very impressed.
2006-08-20 16:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a nice restaurant.. not burger king or anything. Try to impress her. My man took me to an italian restaurant and wowed me with reservations, champagne and the works! Try it, its sure to at least get you laid.. haha. Good Luck.
2006-08-20 16:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dinner and a movie. Bowling is also a good idea.
2006-08-20 16:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by hot.sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Barnes & Nobles is a cool place..They have little cafes, and you guys can shop for books.
2006-08-20 16:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋