I'm 30 and have a love interest that is 22, is that sick? what do you think?
2006-08-20 09:06:24 · 20 answers · asked by wasabitarte 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 30 and have a love interest that is 22, is that sick? what do you think? I know he is interested, but he doesn't know that I am. He's asked me out acouple times and I had fun, should I keep it going? or stop it before it is too late?
2006-08-21 08:57:20 · update #1
Well first off look at Demi and Ashton. I understand your situation because I am 45 and my husband is 32. We have been married 2 years. He was 29 when we first started talking to each other. Is this sick..........not in my book. We became friends and realized that we were soul mates. We do not focus on our ages. We enjoy each other and are committed to each other. Life is too short to be alone. As long as you both are of legal age, enjoy yourself.
2006-08-20 09:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by kms40719 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fopr a woman yes it is not even within two standard devations .Is he laoded or a adonis ?
Women tend to desrie older men with more stabiliy and resoruces status and . power .
I bet anything if you were a man asking the same question you would be flmed and called pervert or robbing the cradle go find soem one ypour own age .
itis unlikley the relationship willast you are in lust
2006-08-20 16:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by crps_1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that isn't sick, and it all depends on the person's taste. Age becomes less and less relevant as we get older, I know that what I consider "acceptable" certainly has changed throughout the years.But if you want to know if this person wants to go out with you or not, talk to them --it's the only way to find out. Good luck to you!!
2006-08-20 16:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. I think that after you are legal anything goes. If the person makes you happy and u have a great time just being with them regardless of age more power to you.
2006-08-20 16:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by brmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 39 and my g/f is 30, so that's not bad; personally, I would consider a 20 yr difference a resonable limit.
2006-08-20 16:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not sick. Personally, I wouldn't do it, but if dating someone younger than you doesn't bug you, 8 years when you're 30 really is not that huge a gap.
2006-08-20 16:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it isnt. Its up to the two people involved and noone else. I once had a boyfriend 15 years younger and it was fantastic. He wanted alot of s*x and we got along great but geography ruined it for us. The world revolves around money too People cant quit their jobs nowadays so easily.
2006-08-20 16:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a little too far but I've seen some who are 20 years age gap. So i think it's ok
2006-08-20 16:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by stv19932 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 20 and my bf is 28, granted we havent been together that long but we dont see the age difference a problem if ppl have a problem with u as a couple then ignore them because its they're small mindedness.
xxx
2006-08-20 16:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by vicki g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be sick? You are both Adults. If he was a kids then it'll be a problem. As long as your are both happy, think demi moore and ashton Kutcher.
2006-08-20 16:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by WICCA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋