she thinks of me as her brother.
2006-08-20 09:01:48 · 19 answers · asked by Jacob R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she knows that i like her, but she just thinks of me like her big brother.
2006-08-20 09:09:35 · update #1
Talk to her and tell her you feel something for her. First try to find out if she likes you too. If she only likes you as a brother then tell her you feel soemthing diffrent.
2006-08-20 09:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooooh, that's gonna be difficuilt.... If she thinks of you as a brother already......
Well.... Have you tried to flirt a little and see how she responds?
Best friends can make the best lovers....
On the otherhand, if you have an unhappy ending it would likely be the end of the friendship, too.
So.. Think about it... Take it slow...
Find out what she likes in a guy, and compare. Does it sound like you? Are you her type?
If you are completely sure you want to take the chance, start by hinting around... Then, ask her how she feels about your friendship. Tell her your friendship means more to you than anything else, be sincere..... Ask her what she likes in a guy and in a relationship... Ask her how she feels about your friendship, and if she has ever thought about taking it to another level.
Good luck to you, i'm hoping for the best....... :) :) :)
2006-08-20 16:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by ~♥Sasha♥~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think of my friend as my brother. What I think you should do is just ask her if she wants to hang out with you ALONE. Suggest going to the park, the movies, somewhere where you can explain to her that you think of her as more than a sister, and that you want to be more than her brother. Like you can ask her what she thinks of you, and if she says "I think of you as a brother" then you could say, "Yea, but I wonder, is that all I'm ever going to be." Take it from there. Note: She might like you, I like the friend I think of as my brother. Good luck.
2006-08-20 16:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre probably screwed. Usually what happens is that if the girl is willing to try a different relationship it doesnt go over so well and you never return to being friends like you used to. And then sometimes she doesnt agree to a more serious relationship and things become awkward and never return to the way they were either. Anyway, how do you ask? Just come out and tell her that you have stronger feelings for her. Be kinda up front and blunt and see how she feels. Good luck.
2006-08-20 16:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it that way you could ruin the relationship I have a best friend who is a guy and he's been my friend for 12 years and you know what it will never go as far as that! If it did, it would've happened a long time ago!
2006-08-20 16:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she thinks friends can go out as more than friends you know that song lovers and friends by lil jon, usher, and ludacris have that playing and then ask her after the song if she thinks that's true can friends become lovers, then if she gives a positive answer, ask her if she wants to try to date.
2006-08-28 13:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it. logocly. you have 2 choices. 1- forget about loving her. 2-take the risk and talk to her.
if you can't take the risk and you can forget her, then it's obvious what should you do.
if you can't get over it and forget her so no way but talking to her.
belive me, what ever you wait nothing gets better it just goes worse. don't practice what to say also don't wait for any special moment. simply invite her somewhere and tell her every thing. be sure at that moment you forget every thing you've practiced.
by waiting you have just let others to propose her.
FACE IT
2006-08-20 17:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mehdi ((sade del)) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just open your mouth and ask her to go to the movies or something. You never know what she really is thinking. Good luck.
2006-08-20 16:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say.. U kno we r such good friends and its so great but... Wouldnt it be better if we like wentout.. I kno it mite be kinda weird since were friends but i really like u and hope u feel the same about me!!
2006-08-20 16:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by yoanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something to let her know you are interested in her like a nice card ,then just ask her.What have you got to lose?
2006-08-20 16:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋