he told me is the best for us and i asked if we can still talk as freinds and he said no that it will be the best for him if we never talk again!ao then i said so this means bye forever then i said bye then i just hung up!after like six min. he texted me"you are always going to be in my heart!i love you"so i wrote back"i love you to but were doing wats best for us and that ill never forget about you"!but i dont understand why he wanted to break up with me but i love him alot and im so sad!:( only tho we were only together for only three months and 13 days i loved him alot!
2006-08-20 08:57:33 · 16 answers · asked by onlygodcanjudgeme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm very sorry for the heartbreak that you're feeling right now. I understand that you must be quite confused by your boyfriend's most recent actions. It sounds as though he wasn't very clear about why he wanted to end your relationship. But it sounds like you are handling the situation in a very mature manner. From what you wrote it appears that you're trying to be understanding and are respecting his decision (even though it might confuse you and hurt your feelings).
You should be proud of yourself for allowing him to have his space and the right to make the decision he has. I'm sure it's been difficult... but just hold your head up high and know that everything happens for a reason. Give yourself time to get over the feelings that you're experiencing. It's normal to feel sad and confused after a breakup.
Perhaps, if you just go on with your life and allow your ex-boyfriend to have his own space (and show that you're a strong and healthy person on your own... with your own life and friends and interests...) then who knows? Maybe he'll end up wanting to get back together (and then YOU can decide whether or not you want too) Give it time... and don't call him... let him call you.
Hang in there. Best wishes!
2006-08-20 09:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what's best? what does that mean. Was the relationship bad that he thought you two would be better apart? If he texted you and told you he loves you then why did he tell you he doesn't want any contact with you at all, not even as friends? There's obviously something he's not telling you. (another girl maybe) My advice to you is to move on and find someone that won't play games like he is. I'm sure your young, and you'll get over him fast, and in a few months you'll look back and say to yourself "what did I ever see in him". I know you don't think you will but trust me...everyone and everybody has been through. Be strong
2006-08-20 09:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your break up...
Breaking up is always hard..
Even in 3 months you can start to develop
some strong feelings for someone...
It's ok to feel the way you feel,
but just know that it will get better from here..
I hate to say it, I know it's not what you want to hear...
But..
He may have just wanted a "Summer fling", in a sense.
He may have met someone else...
Or, he may just not be ready for relationship..
It doesn't matter what the reason, if he has already said
he doesn't want to remain friends, you are left with no
choice but to move on......
You can do this, and you WILL get through this!!
For now, concentrate on you.
Pamper yourself..
Go to a salon, get a new style or color..
Or, do it at home...
Give yourself a makeover...
Go shopping, by yourself something nice..
Call a friend, ask her to go with you.
Go out and have some fun, you deserve it...
Soon, he will be out of your thoughts...
You may meet someone new.
Someone great!
Or not, but the important thing is to have fun.
If you and he are meant to be,
you will be back together someday down the road.
But, don't wait around! Don't miss out on life.
You never know what (or who) the future holds for you. :)
Stay busy, enjoy your life, it will definitely get better.
If you need someone to talk, email me.
I'm always here to talk. :)
*Hugz*
2006-08-20 09:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by ~♥Sasha♥~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey eveyone breaks up w/ someone are gets broken up w/ at some point in life. It can hurt like hell. But sooner than you think your life will be back to normally and you will have forgot all about him. Right now you dont think that's possiable but trust me being a woman I've broken hearts and gotten mine broken. It comes w/ life. What can ya do NOT DATE!! Well we know that's not gonna happen........ So **** em let em go........But don't be nice to him. Be a ***** It's for the best......lol
2006-08-20 09:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know what he wants. He loves you but can't be with you. YADA YADA YADA. Best thing to do: Don't hang your heart for him, back off and if he comes back he comes back. Respond to his messages but don't initiate any contact that doesn't qualify as "just friends"
2006-08-20 09:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly if the chemistry became gone then you truthfully men are extra constructive off with out one yet another. yet human beings in no way favor to be damaged up with. They continuously favor to do the breaking up. you could listen issues from outdoors the lavatory. It echoes you spot.
2016-11-30 21:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i split with someone 3 weeks ago to start with i thought my world had ended but trust me it gets better life goes on u dont think that now but u will soon good luck
2006-08-20 10:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has another woman, get your self dressed up real nice and go out on the town, move FORWARD not backwards. there are more men in the world than just him.
2006-08-20 09:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need some strange....Go get some girl
2006-08-20 09:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by got_shots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are incapable of human emotion(ex. jerks who leave comments) move on girl life is to short.
2006-08-20 09:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋