A man 46 is all done raising his now adult children and is looking foward to enjoy his $ and freedon when all of the suden his mistress becomes pregnant rigth during his happy divorce after walking out on his fam . and now he is babysiiting the child in the mornings till girlfriend gets home from work and he goes to work 3 to 12 at night .What a nighmare!.The story it self is exsusting.A bomer in the relationship?mmmmmm
2006-08-20 08:53:46 · 11 answers · asked by Alijoy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Honest, I do not feel sorry for him. He walked out on his marriage and made his new life.
2006-08-20 09:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by -------- 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well sounds to me like the Mistress is the reason for the Happy divorce in the first place so that in and of itself sets a stage for disaster in a relationship. If he cheated on his wife he will cheat on the mistress too.
Next he is blessed with a new baby that may or may not be his. Oh Joy. I bet that went over like a Turd in a punch bowl when he found out that at 46 he is going to be a grandpa daddy for the rest of his life. You both do know what causes babies right?
I wouldn't expect the man to be too damn thrilled about this whole scenario but hell maybe he made his own bed and now has to lay in it next to the mistress or put on his track shoes and haul butt.
I just want to know one thing? What the hell is your question anyway. This is more like a story then a question.
That's life!!
2006-08-20 16:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's a jerk and deserves whatever misery he brought to himself.
My husband became a father at 48. He is the most loving, caring, patient, gentle father anyone could hope for. Our daughter is 8 months now and he still says sometimes that his feet haven't touched the ground.
2006-08-20 17:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by gonefornow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just asked my husband as that is his age and we have four kids at home ,three grown and on their own. He has more time to hang with them,has learned a few things like patience and that hanging out with them is the best. Now this mistress thing the guy would deserve to babysit, the weasil hehe. I would still have to kick their butts all the same.
2006-08-20 16:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he 46 he should be retired now or very close and can become a child again with the new baby. Sounds like fun and now he have something to do in his retirement.
2006-08-20 16:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had my second family at fifty and now at 80 enjoy them immensely.
we both worked, my job being designer and her teacher.. her schedule dominated, the boys different personalitys and all their new freinds... enriched our lives.
One son is a champion canoer on a national team.
The older one sells wines all over the world.
2006-08-20 17:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by herbywalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh well! That's what happens when you think with your d*ck. It's mind over matter and it didn't matter to him when he wet his wick and now he is suffering the consequences. He has to grow up and take responsibilities for his actions.
2006-08-20 16:43:33 · answer #7 · answered by slipper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, what's the problem..................... If you have sex at any age and bring a child into the world it's your responsibility to take care of it. The child did not ask you to bring him/her into the world, if you don't want children get a vasectomy or tubes tied.
2006-08-20 16:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by sane_nut 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if he's not complaining then whats the problem
2006-08-20 16:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me i'm 52 and it would bring meaning to my life
2006-08-20 16:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋