Hi I started this new job, there is also this new girl, she is very nice to me, do everything for me, talk to me, smile for me, and talk to me about her family/stuff etc.. I am very attracted to her, the problem is that It is like beast and beauty, she is 5,11,, I am 5,6. She is about 5 years young then me,, and I even don’t know if she has bf or not..
So how I know if she is just nice to me as a friend / coworkers or she will be interested dating..
Only things she can be impress that I am very smart/ (she told me that)…
I had two bad experience in previous two jobs, when I asked girls out on date, both complaint about me.. so I don’t know what to do………helpppppppppp
2006-08-20 08:16:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Don't get your lovin where you get your livin." A relationship with a coworker always results in problems. It's better to just avoid them.
2006-08-20 08:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question - try to find out if she has a boyfriend in casual conversation. Maybe ask her to go do soemthing with a bunch of coworkers - as a group - so it isn't a date. Go to Happy hour on Friday, etc, and see where it develops!
Good luck, my brother...
2006-08-20 15:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by merigold00 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her outside of work, say when you leave the office or whatever. Then ask her if she would like to go grab dinner somewhere or go for a drink or something. That way you aren't officially doing anything at work.
2006-08-20 15:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow when you both have a break ask her to go for a coffee or go to lunch with ya. then when you arnt at work there will be a relaxed atmosphere work from there.
2006-08-20 15:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by BElow froSTy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the phrase "Don't dip your donut in the company coffee?" If you do it, then be warned it hardly ever works out.....Then your stuck working with people you can't stand.
2006-08-20 15:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her make the 1st move...If she likes you she will ask you out. Just maybe complements her on how she looks
2006-08-20 15:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lysa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her for a drink
2006-08-20 15:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by got_shots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never date people that you work with
2006-08-20 15:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋