Am I being too possesive?

Question

We've been dating almost 7 months. He says he's in love with me and has treated me with so much respect when we are together. Has been apart of many of my family activities. I usually only see him weekends unless I go to his place. He doesn't call me or ask me to go out during the week. Am I asking too much of him to return calls during the week? To see him during the week? I feel like if I push the issue with him, he'll freak and run.

Answer 1

The secret to good relationship is deciding what you want no matter what and what your willing to tolerate and live with. I

f you need and can't live without contact during the week then your not pushing. Its what you need to feel stable and at home in a relationship. If its something you want him to do because that's what good boyfriends do, but it's not really that deep to you, then let it go.

Answer 2

Here's something you have to understand, love is not possesion. The nimute it turns into possesion, it turns into hurt, and love was never meant to make us hurt. Trust, hon, trust him, trust yourself, and trust God is doing what he has planned for you.
I spent 15 years in a relationship worrying, untrusting and suffering, and this is not why i am on this earth, neither are you.
IF there comes a moment when you find (and prove) he doesn't deserve your trust, let him go, but until then, don't suffer if you don't have to. And eventually you'll see that he is going to start feeling your vibes, and feel so much more comfortable with you.
God Luck!

Answer 3

You're definitely NOT being too possesive. Just make sure he runs after you more than you run after him. Or then he'll think you're "stalking" him. It's not stalking but guys can be retarded and tell their friends that to make them seem like bigshots.

Answer 4

Don't rush him.

Women always always crowd guys and don't give us the space we need to breathe that's one of the main reasons why so many guys run out.