so i have been in this long distance relationship for more than a year now, and my girlfriend just went to a different university than the one i go to. in past, we used to talk on the phone constantly and i didnt mind the long distance relationship. and now that she's at college, she barely ever has time to talk on the phone. and when i confronted her on why she's always busy, she started crying about how stressful college has been and i should be more supportive of her. and she kept telling me that she loves me so much, and dont want to lose me. i do believe her when she says that, but i also cannot go along knowing that she's never free to talk to me. and i also dont think i can let her go without hurting myself emotionaly. i do trust her in that she's not going to cheat on me and she loves me, and i guess i too care about her a lot in the return. but the situation is getting messier and messier with each day. what should i do
2006-08-20 07:50:22 · 4 answers · asked by James B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may have to give each other some space and freedom because otherwise it may be over.
If you love someone and you set them free and they come back to you then they are yours.
She will have to choose you over all others for her to be yours. You have to do the same.
The Sun will rise again tomorrow, Worrying about it today will waste today and not help tomorrow.
God Bless You,
2006-08-20 08:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm...if it's lasted this long...maybe it can still last longer...
maybe, just maybe, if college life is so stressful for her, the two of you should talk about taking a break. or maybe you should take a step back and consider yourself on a break so that whenever she doesn't have time to talk to you, it won't feel so bad.
but most likely, she just needs to know you do support her. try setting aside a time each week to talk on the phone...maybe even help her do homework or something...
you could each rent a new release movie and watch it together (sort of) while running up your phone bills...
2006-08-20 15:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by jantwo11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try communicating by email. Less expensive, and you and she can communicate when you have time with no pressure. Good luck, and you must trust her.
2006-08-20 14:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up
2006-08-20 14:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋