The situation is like this, i've been with my girlfriend like 6 years, and i have feelings for her, but i don't love her, and i've been feeling bored with her lately, i'm only with her because the sex is so freaking great. About a month ago i met a new girl , i have so much fun with her, i really enjoy talking to her, but she is a conservative person with respect to sex nevertheless i might be falling for her. So i don't know what to do, i don't want to hurt my girlfriend, but i get bored a lot, although i repeat the sex is awsome . Do you have any suggestions??
2006-08-20 07:44:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the other girl really doesnt have anything to do with you wanting to break up with your girl.....you allowed your self to get involved with another girl because you were ready to get out of your relationship....your gonna regret leaving your girl for this new girl...i can almost guarantee that....you probably should break up with your girl or take a break or something, but dont go run off with this other chick because all she is, is a reason to leave who you're with now
2006-08-20 07:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by me m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may want to ask yourself why you think you are bored with your current relationship. If you say the sex is great, but are attracted to the new girls personality, it may be that you are lacking mental stimulation in your current relationship. This new girl doesnt want to put out but you know your gf will, I believe when she finally gives in you will be searching for fullfillment elsewhere again! I say the best thing is to make sure that there is not more than a sexual relationship between you and your gf that you are missing out on first, it may have been there all the time! There is also an old saying that "you don't no what you have till....
2006-08-20 14:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by esty1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u been with your gf for 6 years u have feeling for her but cos of a girl u just met u want to throw it all away you r so stupid if you get bored do more stuf together go out talk try new things . i tell u this if u do end it and go with the other girl what u gonna do if she rejects u and i bet that u will regret it cos if she does get together with u your always gonna be thinking i wonder what she is oing right now and comparing the 2 in the bedroom department . 6 years or or 1 month not hard to choose make sure you make the right choice hun
2006-08-20 15:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by spud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personaly after 6 years i would get bored probably beacuse i would feel like the realtionship was going nowhere but that doesnt mean i would go and cheat on him. But anyway I would just tell your girlfriend the truth even though you are a BIG JERK and then see how she takes it and then go from there. If i was her i would slap u across the face.
2006-08-20 15:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by americangurl92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your girlfriend. She and you do not deserve each other. You are just using her for sex and playing with her emotions. She probably loves you, but you just want pleasure. She deserves more than that.
If you're attracted to another girl, then be with that girl and don't hurt your current girlfriend's feelings by continuing this behind her back. Just don't be with a person for sex only. "Chemistry" is more important.
2006-08-20 14:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by C. Menstein 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's important to you in a relationship? With age sex will become less important, but talking won't keep you warm at night.
What is it about each girl you like and dislike? is the other girl willing to take on the traits of the other? Is the new girl willing to become adventurous? Have your tried talking to your old G/F?
2006-08-20 14:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a PIG!!! sex isn't everything you know. But if this "new " girl is so great, why even bother cheating on the other one? I think you don't deserve either one. You are hurting your girlfriend and you are going to most likely hurt the next one, cos you can't keep your snake in your pants.
2006-08-20 14:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by christi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being an asshole!!! I think that you should break up with her. Why? Because she can get way better than you if all you want from her is sex. I hate guys who do that. Oh yeah, and if you go with the other girl, I hope she can help you become a real man.
2006-08-20 14:52:47 · answer #8 · answered by cutie34lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, set her free so another man can take your place and love her the way she deserves and have wonderful lovemaking with her, and as for the new girl well everyone knows that anyhing new is always fun. Think about it.
2006-08-20 14:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant help how you feel, if you prefer being with the other girl than go for it, imagine if you married the woman youv been with for 6 years, tould be a disaster, better to inish now than get a divorce after you are married!
2006-08-20 14:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by myrtle_bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋