Should I take her for a meal and get her drunk I dont want to hurt her and would still like to sleep with her on a caual basis, serious answers only please!!!
2006-08-20 07:30:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Serious answers..... You are a F****** PIG!!!!! You should be ashamed in asking that question.... I hope your gf kicks you in the b****...... And if you want to sleep with somebody on a casual basis sleep with your mother.
Ohhhhh and something else.... eat S***. A**hole
2006-08-20 07:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want serious answers? Well, i'm going to give you my serious opinion. First, you have got to be crazy if you think your girlfriend will want to continue sleeping with you after you tell her your sleeping with her best friend. I don't suggest you take her out to a restaurant or try to get her drunk. You were man enough to see her best friend behind her back, so you should be man enough to tell her face to face what you are doing. Yeah, she's going to be pissed and probably hate your guts, but atleast she would know that you did come to her and tell her. There is nothing worse than someone trying to make it feel better by candy coating something very serious like your trying to do. You say you don't want to hurt her, but you already have hurt her. You and this other girl deserve each other because you both don't care about anybody's feelings except your own. She's a lousy best friend, and your a sorry boyfriend. I guess what really makes me upset about this is that you put at the end of your question that you would like to continue sleeping with her on a casual basis. The nerve of you to even think that way. If you want two women at the same time, why don't you go out here and find two women that does that type of thing. There are plenty of them out there. Your soon to be ex-girlfriend needs a real man, and I hope she finds him after you.
2006-08-20 15:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to honestly ask this: When did you decide that you were getting tired of having cake AND ice cream??
There is no best time, because you made a really poor choice. You already hurt her by seeing her friend and sneaking behind her back.And now you're hoping she'll understand and be ok to have a little sex on the side.
Please wake up. This is not reality. This is not rational thinking. Its this type of behavior that makes women extremely cynical about men, and think about your gf's future bf's. They will have to deal with the unneccessary baggage that you created and while you are sleeping soundly, what about the sleepless nights that you'll be causing?
Was her friend worth all of this? When you were developing feelings for her, didn't something tell you that this was not quite right? Or was it because you and her best friend discovered that you were attracted to each other that neither or you felt that was a bad thing?
Also, what about this new girl? If she's willing to be your accomplice to decieving your gf, how can exactly can you trust her. A woman who is willing to put a man ahead of a friendship with another woman is one that needs to be treated with a long-handled spoon.
You really need to give yourself a hard look and decide what you're going to do
2006-08-20 15:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by rrticulate1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not your gf you seen to that and to expect sex from her on casual basis is stupid!!!!! You have no respect for her. I hope she plants her foot in your jewels. her best friend is no friend at all. the both of you just prove to her what trash is out there in the world.
I hope your so called gf can get over this she deseves so much more than a low life like you can give her!!!!!
2006-08-20 14:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol,..how the h*ll can i give an serious answer to that?...hmm,..i dont think there is a good time to tell her something like that. you might want to get her drunk first,..she might not be able to hit quite as hard.
2006-08-20 14:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don"t waste a moment.You want to have your cake and eat it too.No way you can do it.So tell her before you are caught and forget about casual basis , Remeber rolling stone gethers no moss.
2006-08-20 14:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by shribharatpshubh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no time is good,but as soon as you talk to her again just tell her you have proable cause a friend ship,but the friend was not really a friend or she would have told her friend you were trying to go with her,instead she went with you,your both sorry in my opinion.
2006-08-20 15:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by cherry c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best time is just before u call the funeral home cuz u will be dead as soon as u tell her.
2006-08-20 14:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by bkybdy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you still like to sleep with her on a casual basis while you go out with her friend !!!
how can you live with yourself?!
2006-08-20 14:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i'm not going to judge u but i think u should tell her when you are alone at her place (don't tell her at your place she will break all your ****) and tell her that it just happened but u should know u are about to get in the middle of a big gurl fight u should just leave both of them alone
2006-08-20 14:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by grant_lilmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋