He and I have a good relationship, sexually and otherwise. He had a friend over last night. They talked and had a nice visit. This morning, they were sitting out on the porch and I was ther and they mentione wanting breakfast, my boyfriend's friend said we need to water the cows, ( my boyfriend id a farmer). David said lets go. I usually go with him when he does this. They got up rather quickly and were gone. I stayed home and made breakfast. They were gine about 30 minutes then they returned. I could have easily gone with them and usually do. It was like I was made to be commited to the breakfast. I have talked with both of them about my suspicions. They denign it saying they can;t believe that I would even suggest thi , and then they make fun of my even asking. This person has come overand stayed the night with David even back before we met. He does not have a good relationship with his wife. They do not live together but are still marrie. Both of these men said they enjoy anal sex.
2006-08-20 07:22:23 · 12 answers · asked by gofigure 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you were suspicious about him before this guy (his friend) even came along.....not enough information to say one way or another....if this is all you got on him then you are probably just paranoid...
2006-08-20 07:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by me m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so other then that both men say they enjoy anal sex (do you mean they said they enjoy having it with other women or with other men?) and that they spend time alone together, there is no indication your boyfriend may be bisexual? I would say that is fairly likely that he is NOT BISEXUAL based on those facts only.
If this is something you are still concerened about you should ask yourself the following questions:
1) Do I trust my boyfried to be loyal and not cheat on me?
If the answer is yes, then you don't have anything to worry about regardless.
If he is not loyal to you, then that is another problem, no matter who he is being disloyal with and grounds for dumping no matter what.
2) In the event that he is bisexual, am I bothered by the thought of his being bisexual regardless of whether he acts on it or not? (Meaning if he is loyal to you but sexually he goes both ways, how much does it matter as long as he is only with you)
You may also want to ask yourself if you have a problem with bisexuality in general (for religous or other reasons) or if you are ok with it as long as it doens't interfere with your relationship.
2006-08-20 14:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...how would they know if they enjoyed anal sex if they hadn't tried it?
Would it be a problem for you if he was bisexual?
That was nice of you to prepare breakfast, I hope they thanked you.
2006-08-20 14:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep an eye on him..
Just because two men enjoy anal sex does not
mean they enjoy it between each other..
Many men enjoy anal sex with women..
2006-08-20 14:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have they watched Broke-back Mountain????
2006-08-20 14:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Towelie says always remember to bring a towel. Wanna get high?
2006-08-20 14:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by The Chief 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sounds like brokeback mountain
2006-08-20 14:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes hes bisexual
2006-08-20 14:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by 2 THICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a vibrator! That is a updating your situation!
2006-08-20 14:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anal with a woman you dumb *** not each other!!
2006-08-20 14:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Nicki's guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋