a girl to do on a first date with you?
2006-08-20 07:20:19 · 32 answers · asked by grant_lilmama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be open and honest - no head games no saying oh i had a nice time and not honestly saying it to keep from hurting my feelings. I much rather get the rejection then false hope.
2006-08-20 07:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lib 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk and get to know each other. You never know, you might like this person and if you have sex on the first date then you start basing the relationship on a physical level. lt will be pretty much downhill from there. l just got out of a 13 yr. marriage and we had sex on the first date and we were miserable for many years. Sex will come but get to know the person before you hop in bed with them too quick. lt may be ok for a one night stand but bad in the long run.
2006-08-20 07:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by j45smutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk comfortably. and confirm that it is infact a date and that she is interested in you. make jokes, and just get comfortable. hold hands, sit on the same side of the table maybe a dance, let the dude pay for you, and good night kiss. thats ideal for a first date. if you put out too much forget it you're a lost cause. but if you're too cold thats even worse. Have fun, but don't act like one of my friends is all I'm saying.
2006-08-20 07:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by mwells0629 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
On the first date, that's what 90% of most guys are trying to do off top! So, by you giving it up! It knocks out a lot Bullsh*t and work guys have to do!
Kudos to you! I wish there were more women like you!!!
2006-08-20 07:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by missionman1914 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicative!
2006-08-20 07:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girl should be herself, frankly, spontaneous and easy-going. She should be eager to spend a nice evening, maybe go to the movies and have dinner and at the right moment be ready for a first kiss.
2006-08-20 07:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen
2006-08-20 07:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel M 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy being with me. be interested in me. ask me questions about me. you know get to know me. who knows if the sprk is there maybe there can be a little snuggling and making out? its all up to her. women control everything on a first date.
2006-08-20 07:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would really like to talk,and have a coffee,go for a walk.eat ice cream. and go dancing,play some pool. and just hang out. and may-be kiss a little.
2006-08-20 07:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest...don't send your representative. You know that fake ***** that lives inside you that thinks she knows what she wants. Yeah her..go and have fun. Be open to new ideas, like skydiving.
2006-08-20 07:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by krazymtt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋