Can we have some truthful answers this time please, and not your typical fairy tale crap? We do live in the real world after all. I wanna know what YOU think, not the movies. And please, don't be shy or lie, it's not like we know who you are!!!
2006-08-20 06:34:36 · 17 answers · asked by monotol 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh definitely the greenbacks. The more money he has, the more irresistible he becomes. After all, he has to take care of me, shower me with gifts, take me to far away places for holidays, and get me everything I have always wanted, right? He can't very well charm his way into getting a, say, diamond ring for me now, can he? Looks, personality, humour - they are all secondary. If he has the money, I can pretty much tolerate anything.
The above is what YOU wanna read. Below is what I REALLY think.
From the list you have given, a charming personality and great sense of humour would top my list of irresistible traits in a guy. Though I would not date a bum, the size of a guy's bank account does not matter, nor his external appearances. Let me add wit, intelligence, compassion, generosity and a strong sense of responsibility to the traits I find extremely appealing.
It does sound like fairy tale, I know, because not many guys are like that. If I find him, I will follow him to the ends of the earth, if need be. Ooops, I forgot. You don't wanna hear this crap!
Have fun reading..... :)
2006-08-20 19:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by reformed_witch 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Lol, oh well i guess you wont be happy with my answer but im sorry, im just being honest. Moneys not important to me whatsoever, i know in the long run, we have to be realistic and everythin, but thats about money for investin in an apartment together, or in a family and stuff like that...but that has nothin to do with how attracted i would be to a guy...although ok i do admit, i admire guys who make their way up in the world more as oppose to guys who are born into it...but as i said, its like the last thing i would worry about. Looks? sure, im not gonna lie, looks play a big part in the attraction feature...but its more of a combination of the personality that makes a guy really cute or good lookin to me, you know..the sweet smile or the twinkle in the eye...stuff like that. I know you may find this hard to believe, but i´ve met alota guys who i thought were really good lookin at first, so i was attracted to them...but after i spoke to em for a while lol..well, lets just say the attraction level lowered somewhat, although they still looked like guy-super-models. Personality and sense of humour is whats most important to me, cuz i love humour and if hes a nice guy..then what does the rest matter? It doesnt. And far as charm goes...well i think charms a part of the personality...some guys may be more charmin than others, but its not necessarily sincere charm...so i have to be honest, i dont really trust the charm factor about a guy, cuz im never sure if they are just pretendin to be nice or if they are for real. I hope this helps. :)
2006-08-20 06:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jaded 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A girl with incredibly nice eyes is always irresistible. I don't care which color the eyes are, it just has to be beautiful.
2016-03-26 23:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Power
2006-08-20 06:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by thefox 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What makes a guy irresistable is being who he really is without putting up a front. He's just him. I might also add that looks, charisma, sensitivity, down to earth, and being romantic is what makes a guy sexy for me.
2006-08-20 06:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think humor and personality, I'm very turned on by men that have great a personality and can make me laugh! I'll be laughin right out of my panties(and you have to be a little attractive)
2006-08-20 06:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by Kindashy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
His confidence of who he is, but at the same time him being down to Earth enough to be friendly to everyone.
2006-08-20 06:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by ananswerer 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
personality/charm and humor. honest! if he can't make me laugh or cheer me up or be my friend then it won't matter what he looks like, either way he needs to go. and i can pay my own bills.
2006-08-20 08:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by missi49509 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Money
2006-08-20 06:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
sense of humor. I've been with a guy that can make me laugh non-stop, anytime...and b/c of that, I grew very attracted to him.
2006-08-20 06:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋