ok I have this guy friend and we sleep together,and spend a lot of time at his house well all of the time at his house and he has other female friends that he goes out in public with I'm not sure what to make of this help me out
2006-08-20 06:16:19 · 11 answers · asked by purple_dogs_bed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Change 'Confused Help' to 'Stupid Help'!
OK, that probably wasn’t fair, but really… If he seriously cares about you, he wouldn’t be going out in public with other female friends.
You can rest assured that if you get pregnant to him, he will continue to go out with other female friends, and you will be left holding the baby.
Wise up, and get out of that relationship whilst the getting is good. He won’t care… He’ll soon find someone else to take your place!!!
2006-08-20 06:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, first you need to find out if he is really a friend. What happens if you are unavailable a few times? Is he still your friend?
"We spend... all of the time ar his house... has other female friends that he goes out in PUBLIC with" How does that sentence make you feel? Dear, it speaks volumes.
We women tend to become emotionally connected after intercourse (sex), whereas men use sex for physical gratification. That said, are you emotionally tied to this guy? If so, how vested are you? Is he even close to your level of investment? Just be observant for awhile. Suggest public outings- small ones at first (ice cream, a walk etc.) See how he responds.
Bottom line, you are his benefits girl- doesn't feel so good, huh? If you are not kosher with that, be strong and do what is in your emotional best interest. Best wishes!
2006-08-20 13:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by rmdybles30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you he doesnt take you out in public with him like he does with these other women then that right there alone should spell it out for you love.
You're prolly into one of those 'friends with beneifits' things. Which is all good and fine if you're willing ta handle that he's going to see other people as well as you.
While he's seeing you.
If you want to be more then you need to tell him. But keep in mind that you may loose a friend in this. However, there are a whole lot more friends to make in the future. Trust me on that.
Personally i wouldn't keep someone like that in my close company.
2006-08-21 16:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by warm_champaign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you and your guy friend are really close, the thing about him having friends of your gender is it may not be what you think especially if he is into you and if he is smart he won't give the other girls a chance. I won't worry too much about him having an encounter with them if he has them just to socialize with. If you don't have a problem with him having them as friends and he tells you so unless he gives others reason. Hope this helps.
2006-08-20 13:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Guy World,
There are two types of women:
a) The ones you take home to mother.
b) The ones that are strictly for bedroom purposes.
It is your job to be in Category A!
2006-08-20 14:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an ***. Babe find some1 that respects u 4 who u r! Not what u will do 4 him. Hope u find the right kindda guy x
2006-08-20 13:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lynz Lou XxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u mean you are not sure to make of it? It sounds as if you are one of his bi-atches! and he has you all on rotation depending on which one of you he wants to show off. If i were you i'd start respecting yourself more than being used by a guy who is supposed to be your friend and make a decision about how you u want him to see you. dorrmat or a strong valued woman?
2006-08-20 13:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by bananapancakes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him
2006-08-20 13:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by bobemac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sorry you are just a friend with benefits
2006-08-20 13:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by susi98223 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just a pice to him sry
2006-08-20 13:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jay B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋