my boyfriend is 55...is diabetic and is on medication. He tells me the only way he can have an orgasim is by getting blow jobs. My question is....is this really true or is he just pulling my leg because he prefers job blows. Seems to me if he can't get off...why can he get off with a ********. I am a highly sexual women and sexy and grrrrrrrreat at intercourse so I know it not me. Is is possible he just prefers blowjobs and uses the other stuff as an excuse to get blowjobs all the time instead of having intercourse?
2006-08-20 05:55:32 · 11 answers · asked by north44girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At 55 and with diabetes, he may have a loss of sensitivity (nerve loss) in his penis. Or, if he has other circulatory issues, he might also have a loss of sensitivity.
Your vagina may not provide enough direct stimulation to bring him to orgasm. This does not mean that there is anything wrong with you.
With fellatio, the most sensitive parts of the penis receive direct stimulation and it's easier for him to reach orgasm.
If you're really great at intercourse, that's wonderful. He can boink you senseless until he need to come and then you can finish him orally. It does introduce a "routine" into you sex life, but it may the only way for both of you to get the pleasure you need.
2006-08-20 06:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he is half lying i am a diabetic and with the medication that i take i don't keep a hard on as good with intercourse as i do with a ********. his age don't help any but they do make a neat little blue pill now . but then again he may just prefer blow jobs most men do.
2006-08-20 06:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by drth2oman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selfish, selfish guy. You can use oral to make him hard and then he can use his tool to take care of you. The best part of sex is making sure your partner is satisfied, while you are satisfying yourself. An occasional bl##%^& for the guy is cool it should not be an every time deal. Since you are so great at intercourse he should not have a problem. Again the main goal is for both partners to be satisfied!
2006-08-20 10:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fuc his old *** you deserve better u better drop his a s s and get someone else thats just a dam excuse , he don't care anything about your needs . how is a old dush bag like him going to have request ohhhhhhhhhh he makes me made... i wouldn't be so mad if he was younger but his ugly stank self plz u stupid find u a real man
2006-08-20 06:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by africacarey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it to me hes using it as an excuse
2006-08-20 06:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by tamw20032003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a little selfish to me, does he reciprocate the favor?
2006-08-21 01:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by d d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like crap to me....sounds like a fettish thing to me as well, he probably just has a fascination with seeing his pecker in your mouth
2006-08-20 06:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by do_sctc145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he's putting you on, but I have been known to be wrong.
2006-08-20 06:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's a closet queer. have you found any cucumbers missing or having slobber marks on them?
2006-08-20 06:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's probably too lazy to do the deed.just my opinion.
2006-08-20 06:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by lunatic_no9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋