everytime i go out with him,after a few drinks he starts rowing with me and calling me names.iv told him to stop doing it or ill finish with him but he still keeps doing it,we'v been together four years but he has only started doing this in the last year,
2006-08-20 05:45:30 · 15 answers · asked by shorty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to take care of yourself - the fact he's kept doing it when you've already been down the road of trying to stop it speaks volumes about him. It's harsh but you need to show him the door until either he's changed or you find someone who'll give you the respect you deserve.
2006-08-20 09:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ethereal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop threatening to finish with him unless you mean it. Try recording him on your mobile phone & show him later when he has calmed down, he may not realise what he's doing. If he shows no remorse for what he's doing, perhaps it is time you ended it, nobody deserves to be treated that way & if you can't make him stop, you need to get away from him for your own piece of mind. If he is sorry for what he's doing, you BOTH need to sit down & think about what happened last year to make him change so dramatically then work on fixing it.
2006-08-20 13:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by stumpymosha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how people start saying what they think after a few drinks, he must have some problem with you, best if you sort it out now before you think of marriage, seeing as he keeps doing it after you have threatened to finish with him, maybe Its what he wants you to do, cos he hasn't the balls to do it himself, or he
doesn't want to hurt you, if that makes sense.
Best of luck, i hope it turns out OK....
2006-08-20 13:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by kelvin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he using drugs or drinking anything different?When you have told him you will fininsh with him what has been his response,has he begged you not to or does he say go ahead then.There is something going on with your guy and the only way to really find out is to talk to him,he may want out of the relationship and cant find a way of telling you.
2006-08-20 12:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps doing it coz, you still stay around after, over and over again. If your tired of it leave him, if you're williness to stay than deal with it. Men only do to you women what you allow us to do as your man. Good Luck
2006-08-20 13:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by Wood77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you no why hes changed like that?is it only when he has a drink you need to find out the reasons
2006-08-20 12:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out without drinking.
Do something different for a while.
If he carries on disrespecting you when you go out, duno him.
2006-08-20 12:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems to have a drinking problem....i would know b/c my dad does and i live with it....but u need to leave him or bring him to the hospital to get dried out because it will only get worse. Please listen to me b/c if u dont......he could make your life miserable....and u know that that is not that type of life u want.
2006-08-20 13:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have a good talk about it ask if there is something wrong ,do it when he is not drinking,if he keeps it up stop seeing him ,he could start hitting u when he is drunk ,good luck
2006-08-20 12:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by LORRAINE J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds imature babe u dont need 2 put up with that finish with him u can get better he needs 2 grow up
2006-08-20 12:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋