for me to get involved my in boyfriend's personal life? He has E.D. (erectile dysfunction) and though he's not the very sexual type, I've come to the conclusion that it's because of the medicine he's on, 'cause he's on a s h i t load of 'em and that he's goin' to talk to his doctor about it and find out if there's other alternative medicines he can take. I've also researched some vitamins he can take to help this problem. I figured that if we were to do something or if we were to get very serious, that his might be a problem. So, why or why not do you think it's wrong for me to get involved in this?
2006-08-20 03:57:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You should get involved honey.... If i were him id be very glad to have someone as helpful and understanding as you seem to be. I think you should get involved fully in his knowledge, so u dont step on any toes...
adrian
2006-08-20 04:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erectile dysfunction is a quite normal side effect of many madications.Anti psychotics and mood stableisers.Are more apt to be the cause than not. As are a host of others like heart medications and diabetic medications.no matter what.Tell your boyfriend to not go off any type of medications.Until he speakes to his doctors. It is imperative also. That he seek profesional doctors only help.Before taking any herbs,vitimins or other remadies that he thinks might help him.Internet medications are an absolute NO! NO! also. They are dangerous due to the fact. You just don't realy know what is in them. Or how and where they were manufactured.I hope this helped you to understand a bit more. Have a great day!
2006-08-20 11:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by WILLIEGOGO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you're an adult and if your b/f doesn't mine you getting involved, then I don't see any problem. I'm only for you getting involved if your an adult.
Have you asked his opinion of getting involved? Seems like a very delicate subject if you two are not serious yet, but if you already know about it then he must trust you somewhat. Do you think it's wise tho to be involved with someone who is on that much medication? I mean what is the medicine for? If he has a lot of mental health issues I would just make a clean break of it now since your apparently not serious yet. I wish you loads of luck!!!
2006-08-20 11:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's certainly not wrong for you to provide support. In fact, partner support is very important. I'd caution you though that support is quite different from prescribing. Prescibing is something that I would leave up to medical professionals. I seriously doubt that any vitamin therapy will help very much with ED. Good luck to you both!
2006-08-20 11:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by kobacker59 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should speak to him about it first.Tell him you did research and you want to help.I don't think it's wrong for you to get involved.Ask yourself this if you had a problem would you want him to get involved?Show him what you found out about the vitamins.If he doesn't want to listen to you well then you can't force him.Just let him know your there for him if he needs ya.
2006-08-20 11:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by redanimalmuppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its his problem and although its ok to talk to him,maybe he's embarrassed and feels low self esteem and doesnt need you taking control of his problems. If he needs help Im sure he would ask.
2006-08-20 11:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Rob G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of couse its not wong. if you two can not have a sex life then it concerns you also. if its caused by his meds often they can be changed. High blood pressure meds often cause this type of problem
2006-08-20 11:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't having sex yet, definitely stay out of it. If you are or he expresses an interest in your ideas, you can (once ONLY) let him know that you are there for him if he wants your help. DON'T push the issue.
2006-08-20 11:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you are responseble for your actions what you sew is what you harvest so think and do it again without being selfish.
Take care
2006-08-20 11:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a doctor. Point him in a direction, but he has to do this himself.
2006-08-20 11:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋