for me to get involved my in boyfriend's personal life? He has E.D. (erectile dysfunction) and though he's not the very sexual type, I've come to the conclusion that it's because of the medicine he's on, 'cause he's on a s h i t load of 'em and that he's goin' to talk to his doctor about it and find out if there's other alternative medicines he can take. I've also researched some vitamins he can take to help this problem. I figured that if we were to do something or if we were to get very serious, that his might be a problem. So, why or why not do you think it's wrong for me to get involved in this?
2006-08-20 03:54:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
If he's your boyfriend, then his sexual performance is certainly your business. As long as you do it tactfully and sympathetically, there is absolutely no reason why you shouldn't get involved in this problem. You should convince him to talk to a doctor about alternative medicines, etc.
2006-08-20 04:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by hannah_058 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it's wrong for you to be involved in this, unless he's asked you to "butt out." It's your sex life too, after all. But don't go behind his back and ask about medicines for him. If my boyfriend came over with a bottle of pills and said, "here, you need to start taking these instead of your other medications" I would throw him out and tell him to come back when he's sobered up. You're doing a good thing on talking this over with him and going with him to the doctors.
2006-08-20 11:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by RoyGBiv456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really do care about him and love him, i guess its your duty to get involved. I m not sure how different cultures react to this but me as a man if my girl takes the time and effort to help me on what is needed i would love her even more and be hypnotised by her kindness. There is nothing wrong in your involvement as a matter infact i rekon you r a truly wonderful, great, amazing person. You are really a goddess who cares about your guy, no matter what you'll lead a very happy and good life in the future. To get involved in some1 you really care about is actually what we are living in this earth all about. Maybe in his life you are his saviour. Totally awesome....
2006-08-20 11:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jendralus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a huge part of any relationship, so if he can't perform it is not his personal problem it is yours as a couple. Go ahead get involved, just be sure to handle it delicately, this is a sensitive issue for a man and if handled incorrectly it could create a rift in your relationship that cannot be repaired.
2006-08-20 11:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to be concerned about your boyfriend. Ask him before you go to his doctor. Maybe hes embarassed about his E.D. If not, with his *approval*, go to the doctor and ask for alternatives. Nothing should keep you away from caring for someone you love.
2006-08-20 11:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by manateeluver32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong, but it might irk him out a little that you're researching it so thoroughly. I'd have a conversation to him about it, and if you really care for him and vice versa, then he should see that and take your advice. I think it's good that you're getting involve because it shows you care and it might help him with other issues he might be having from his medicine.
2006-08-20 11:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Claire 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think it might make him embarrassed if you get too involved in this. its a personal problem that im sure hes not comfortable with so i would leave it alone unless he specifically comes to you to talk about it.
2006-08-20 11:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lola P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if u see there is a future there then i would definatly get involved and if u love him its only showing u care.
2006-08-20 11:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Gail 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why or why not do you think your boyfriend wants all of us involved in this?
2006-08-20 11:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Stacy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
either u r wrong or he is not right!
2006-08-20 11:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by hmkent t 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋