I really love her and have never felt like this before but I am not sure she will come back to me. Even thinking about that is hell to me.. now how do I forget her? ...I know I will never manage to do that :(
2006-08-20 03:39:51 · 24 answers · asked by Mr. Owl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, you don't have to forget her, just put her away in a pocket somewhere for a while. You have to find something that makes you very happy that has nothing to do with her., at least for the time being. Also, tell yourself, if it is meant to be then you two will be together one day. Do not hang onto that though. She can't MAKE you happy. You have to do that yourself.
2006-08-20 03:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by lindyk 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's been my experience that the only two ways to get over someone you love is time, or meeting someone else . Meeting someone else is by far the best cure for a broken heart, but you can't force it. It just has to happen. I was dumped by a girl I was engaged to. I thought about her everyday for a long time. I finally met a girl that rocked my world. I forgot about the other girl the instant I laid eyes on Linda. We've been married for 16 years now. Good luck, and hang in there.
2006-08-20 03:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by jinxybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen pal. youve had some good answers but hers one that works every time without fail but youve got to be tough and you musn,t chicken out. there aint a bird in this world who likes to be blown out so this is what you do. get in touch with her and tell her that you have been giving it some thought and you find that shes doing your head in and that you want her to leave you alone and move on and find someone else. Say to her thanks for the good times and you hope that she finds someone whos good enough for her and you wish her all the best. This is what is called reverse logic. Now heres the hard bit, stay away from her, dont see or get in touch with her in any way if she trys to get in touch with you ignore her for at least a week or ten days. if she has,nt been in touch by that time then you,ll probaly be fixed up with a new bird or your well rid of her. try it pal it,ll work
2006-08-20 04:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though you've "never felt like this before", you will feel it for someone again, someone who will return your feeling and not lose interest. it's okay to never forget her, it's not okay to never move on. they are two different things. you have to think to yourself, "why do i care so much about a person who obviously has no respect for me?" she may have been a great girl, but she is obviously not for you if she is leaving you like this. move on. it may take a while, and thats okay. it'll be hell for a while, but you'd be amazed how quickly you start seeing things for what they really are and start analyzing and seeing how it couldn't have worked out.
2006-08-20 03:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by thunderwear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find something else to do to occupy yourself so that you would not think of her.Pick a new hobby or learn a sport or a musical instrument!They might help...for time being but it's true..you can never foget her completely but at least you wouldn't be thinking of her all teh time..so it's an improvement.
2006-08-20 04:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Remus L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried telling her. Do so and if she tells you she feels nothing for you then you know it is time to move on. I wish my ex would have told me he felt nothing for me. It would have made moving on a heck of a lot easier. Instead I held onto a shred of hope for as long as I could. So painful to go on loving someone this way. I know how you feel. So if she will still speak to you, ask her.
2006-08-20 03:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a diary - it will help ease the pain. Reflect on the good times and plan for the future. Be healthy, keep fit and try a new hobby. Best wishes.
2006-08-20 03:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Aslan, reborn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you are clinging to someone you're convinced doesn't want you anymore. Ask yourself if you get turned on by emotionally unavailable people or just simply like drama. Move on. You were living and breathing before she came along and you will be afterward. Love is not like how you describe - you merely sound obsessed, and unhealthily too I might add.
2006-08-20 03:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Err...you aint got no choice but forget unless you wanna drive yourself loco...listen it's hard now, but with time you will get over her, you think your only one who has been here before, you need to accept what is...and no. you cant compare what your'e feeling eqivalent to hell because i imagine hell would be ten times worse than what you feel now. Good Luck.
2006-08-20 03:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.do some other things,make yourself busy until u dont have time to think about her
2.u can get another girl,
but i think u should go for the first one
2006-08-20 03:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by pOnEy=P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋