She dont like oral sex but I want to have it how to change her mind to have oral sex without hurting her do you people have any idea with you
2006-08-20 03:38:29 · 9 answers · asked by sanjay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its called communication,,talk to her about it if she doesn't want to give it them let her receive it for awhile..how old is she? She might just be embarrassed right now is all..
2006-08-20 04:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking heart to heart with her to find out why she doesn't want it. Counter that issue yourself. Most won't because of hygeine issues. Some went through traumatic experience and won't even dare to look at it.
You'll be surprise there are 2 married women out of every 50 in the world had never seen their husband's private part their entire marriage.
After you have countered the fear issue, you might want to kickstart with a little fun. Make a fun bet with her on some daily issues. Perhaps do an exchange if you'd lose and you would give her an oral experience as well to make her feel equal.
When you acheive it,you would have to make sure that the first time is good and nice for HER,and not you. That means, even if you don't climax.take it slow.
Good Luck!
2006-08-20 10:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Geo C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to entice her I would suggest first giving her oral. After you have given her this service a few times maybe she will have a change of heart. If you've tried this and she still opposes ask her why shes against it. There really shouldn't be a legitimate reason other than shes scared or thinks its bad/dirty. This is a matter of just making her feel at ease about it. I'm stressing the communicating part because i think going forward for you two to be happy you want her to not only willingly do this from time to time but also enjoy it. You don't want her to feel obligated to do this, like she has to take out the trash or clean out her car. She should try and understand your point of view. If all of this fails I have an extreme, but just hear it out before you judge k? :) Allow her to find pictures of girls doing that on your computer. When she finds them she will be shocked and probably mad. Explain to her that its your fantasy and that you don't want to force her to do something she doesn't want to, but you still think about it. Tell her you will never cheat on her, but the pictures help control the lust. If she still cant find it in her heart to do it for pleasure, she will do it out of jealously of the other girls. Like,"OK I will do this hunny, but no more pictures k?" If after the pictures she still doesn't want, my brother you will have to find another fantasy. Or cheat on your wife. Cheers
2006-08-20 10:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by ipoddironeus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, if she doesn't like it then she doesn't. Make sure and go down on her...she MIGHT decide that you are so good at it that she wants to try to give as well. If you are NOT going down on her then you have NO right to ask for oral sex! And if you are THRUSTING into her mouth - I hope she bites your dick off!
2006-08-20 10:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by doc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello sanjay bhai
i told you some simle steps
never asks her for sex e.g for a week adn when you wanted to have sex with you r wife never been so quick always be some patient let her do everything and when she is becomes very hot ask her about the same she could not deny this is this is mine own exp
2006-08-20 10:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why dont do what she wants you to do cos relationships are handled with love and by understanding each other's needs and habits.
2006-08-20 10:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Immortal_haq 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't like giving or receiving oral???
if she don't like it, respect her wishes...
2006-08-20 10:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her about it
2006-08-20 10:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Valerena 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont ask..................lots of foreplay.................. just do it....make her feel tht how amazing it is
2006-08-20 10:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋