I had Sex with a men I had a Blind date with, Didnt know him from no where, Met on the Net, started texting each other, then decided to meet. on that same date we Had Sex(Did everything) It was like we've know each other forever??
What do you think he thinks of me now??
2006-08-20 03:24:56 · 22 answers · asked by JustBecause 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont see something wrong with it unless you yourself do not feel good about it. If it was what you wanted at the time, then I think its fine. If you feel bad about it, then maybe do not do that - unless you enjoy hurting yourself. Personally, I like women who get what they want.
2006-08-20 03:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Chris M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That your fun.
I've been there done that and had different experiences:
1. that was the one and only time
2. had a long relationship come out of it
Can go either way - if you really did make a connection then maybe he felt the same way. Only time will tell.
Even if NOTHING comes out of it - if you were safe and you had fun than why worry it out? Are you easy? What do you think of you? Are you OK with you?
What's wrong with you? Nothing - you are human and sometimes we go ahead and act on our impulses - and as long as no one gets hurt (no felonies are committed) - sometimes this is OK. You know your limits.
This type of question is going to get you loads of answers that pretty much call you a whore by the way. Again been there done that!
2006-08-20 10:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by not_in_it_4_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lack attention from a man. Perhaps you should go for a proper date (either introduction from a friend, dating service or a hobby club) rather than feel sad after your blind date from the Net. Honestly, the internet isn't a great way to meet new men.
One final word of advice, do learn to appreciate yourself and don't underestimate your self worth. A man can only love you when you learn to love yourself first.
2006-08-20 10:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, a person can get caught up in the moment...who am i judge you, the most important thing is what you feel about yourself, your'e the one who has to live with what youv'e done...but i say dont be too hard on yourself because your'e not the first, and you definitely wont be the last, to do something like this, so try to put it behind you, and move on from this...i supposed he thought it was a spear of the moment thing also, the question should be what do you think of each other? not what other people think, you are both consenting adults...just know this, experience, good or bad, is what we all learn from in life. Good Luck.
2006-08-20 10:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is a smart man he will not base his thoughts of you on wether you enjoy sex after all he participated also and this is 2006 it shouldn't make a woman "easy" if she chooses to have intercourse 10 Min's after she meets someone or 10 months it's not important so i do not think if he is any kind of man he will think anything other then he liked you and enjoyed the experience
2006-08-20 10:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he could really like you, and want a relationship, and worry about the promiscuity later. He could also think you are easy, and whenever he wants some fun he'll give you a call, not that that is a bad thing, but no actual relationship is gonna come of it. Depends on you, and him, i guess you will find out soon enough.
2006-08-20 10:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't answer your original question because it really depends on your own sense of morality. Maybe you feel guilty, maybe you feel fine with what you did. I don't know based on your description. Your follow-up question is likewise hard to answer. Maybe the guy believes in absolute true love at first sight and thinks you're the woman of his dreams. Maybe he thinks you're just... "easy" to put it nicely and because he only wanted to use you once will never call you again.
2006-08-20 10:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sometimes this happens quite often. He thinks its great but if a realtionship was to leave from that night it prob wouldnt go to far. Thats a really bad choice on ur part but asking this question will prob get u more loving if thats what ur after for.
2006-08-20 10:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by Italian stallion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you even care what he thinks? It seems that at the time you didn't think too much of yourself....Has this been some sort of pattern for you? If it's isolated, then stop and think a little more....what do you want?
2006-08-20 10:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jdubyathree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're loose, easy, and lack self love.
2006-08-20 10:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by tracy211968 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋