my boyfriend is very sad because his business deal did not go as expected but i do not know how to bring his spirit up, what should i do?
2006-08-20 03:10:12 · 9 answers · asked by LIFE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make him see the good patches of his work!
you need to make him see to the good things that he has been doing in his work...his hard work..his achievements so far.
Failure is never easy to overlook but,you need to make him see to the points where he lacked that caused this failure...push his spirits by your love....tell him..these failures are his stepping stones to success...not to loose heart...cause this time luck dint favour him to make him matured and luck wants him to improove to seek a much bigger project soon.
be by his side..let him speak all his heart out...just be by his side...that love and your support will give him immense strength & support.don't over pamper him or give him extra attention...let him think,but be there for him.....
good luck!
2006-08-20 03:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be at the end of your wits to have come here with this question.
Honestly there are over a million ways to please a man,speaking as a man here. But the other side of the truth is - there is only one way to please your man and we are not in the position to tell you. You will have to find it out yourself.
1) Talk to him?
2) Brew him a cup of coffee?
3) Jump out of a cake in a bunny suit?
4) Dress up as Princess Leia?
5) Bring him out of the country for a trip?
6) Buy him a latest sports car?
7) Fix him up with a hooker?
8) Dirty dance for him?
9) Watch a football match with him?
10) Cook him a meal?
11) ........................................................
2006-08-20 03:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to bring his spirit up. Let him have his emotions. If it's sadness he's experiencing, then you can comfort him. If it's anger then suggest for him to do something physical and rough.
2006-08-20 03:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by BonAqua Identity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have a special candle light dinner for him and play his favorite music and just do every day things to make him feel happy after when he sees how much effort you are putting into making him feel better he'll start to loosen up...
2006-08-20 03:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by Innocence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him a nice dinner and talk about other things, after dinner talk to him about his business deal while giving him a massage.
2006-08-20 03:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, that its ok.
Kiss him........................Touch him, make him feel that you are a part of him.
Tell him that life is loaded wit lots of ups and downs, and tell him that he has YOU by his side, who will forever stay faithfull to him and who will love him with all her heart!!
Give him a hug ,and make him forget his problems....
Good luck my dear frend....^_^
2006-08-20 03:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
understand him and make him feel comfort, support his views, bring him positive energy,
2006-08-20 03:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by samusdo s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him its ok, and that you love hin no matter what, even if money, and deals and stuff like that don't work out
2006-08-20 03:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a threesome with him and another girl.If that doesn't lift his spirits nothing will.
2006-08-20 03:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by aggravatingprick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋