Ladies does this make you feel in anyway Loose and easy, or its ok depends who its with??
Gents: does this change your pesperctive of the Woman you with, and does it make you loose interest??
2006-08-20 03:08:31 · 21 answers · asked by blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely would not want to do it on the first date. The ladies have to have more respect for themselves than to just have sex with a stranger on the first date. It shold happen if and when the time is right. The guy might not even be the right guy either.
2006-08-20 03:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is being easy so it's best to wait. Unless you are just interested in the sex. Relationships based on sex is not a good start. Esp. if you end up in a long term relationship with this person b/c this will be the standard you will place on your relationship in the future. Then when the sex gets dull you might find your relationship won't hold together b/c there is nothing else that binds you. So, if you are serious about this person....I suggest to wait as long as you both can. Get to know that person. The sex is so much better when you are lovers anyhow.
2006-08-20 10:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Dominika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex on the first date is okay with me as long as you don't go on first dates often. When I used to drink, sex on the first date was bad because I WAS loose after alcohol. But lately, when I was single, I had no problem with it. Some guys DO look at a girl that puts out on the first date as trash, but most I have talked to, don't mind it. And they don't think badly.
2006-08-20 10:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by tjosen2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consenting adults, do what you want. Alas, although we are in the 21st century, women are still considered "whores" if they sleep with a man by the first or second date. Some men placate themselves with the thought that she probably gave it up just as quickly to another man and kick her to the curb, although these same men just the day before were all about hitting it and complain about women who "hold off". Men, ya can't have it both ways although you certainly do try.
2006-08-20 10:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This really depends on the vibe the 2 of you got off eachother. If you both had a very sexual energy and it felt natural, then no it was not wrong. If you did it because you felt you had to or were bored then, find a new hobby.
2006-08-20 10:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally could not just hop into bed with a random stranger, i would have to wait for a few weeks before that happens.
But I know some girls that don't mind and hop into bed with anyone. I suppose it depends on the female.
2006-08-20 10:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by bud_weis_err69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liberalism, the national plague, has made people unaware that you should never have sex until you're married. it's not a game and it's not something you play around with. It's one of the most harmful things you can do, and most "men" really need to get a clue.
2006-08-20 10:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what type of relationship your going for. In most cases if it is for a long lasting relationship and you have sex on the first date then the guy will think your loose.
If however it is to have pure sexual enjoyment without strings attached the guy will think you are Awesome
2006-08-20 10:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, if I sleep with a woman on the first date, it has no bearing at all on if I call her again..what does is whether or not I connected with her on an emotional level.
2006-08-20 10:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Boinked a few of them on first dates. Some of the times they even initiated it.
2006-08-20 10:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋