I have the bestest friend ever, and for the last 3 or 4 years I have been just really good friends. But i think i like her now? Is there anyway to tell... I mean, i think about her more than anything else, when i moved i was so sad. When i came down to visit i would like be in tears everytime i left her house. but now im back in the same town as her...So I guess the real question is do i love her, and if so...how do i get her...(I know I know terrible question to ask but It pisses me off seeing her with the *** of a bf. I know it isnt good to like a chick who already has a bf but it isnt my fault...if i do really like her..) Someone please help with my confusion...
2006-08-20 02:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by Mystic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure..you could love her. You might have loved her the whole time and just didn't know it. But...If you love her you don't want to break up her and her boyfriend. You don't want to be a rebound guy or anything and you are her best friends (which real best friends don't do) I would say wait till the time is right (or hell even just the right moment, if her boyfriend is an ***) and tell her how you feel. Tell her you just want to know how she feels about you , because you care about her so much and relized that you may like her more than just a friend and when you had to move it hit you like a ton of bricks. Maybe, she'll just say Oh I have waited to hear you say that!!
Anyway...Wish you luck with it. :)
2006-08-20 02:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you do love her love is when you cant stop think about that person and when you see them you get that feeling in your belly like butterfly's are in side of you it feels good and you have that person in your mind always.
sounds to me like you do love her I think you should tell her how you feel if she don't feel the same way still stay mates with her but move on as there is someone out the for you its just finding them :)
Good luck hun :)
2006-08-20 09:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Foxy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant tell you like her when the phone rings and on the caller ID is her # and then you start smiling. Or when you think about her you cant help but smile. Just take a chance and ask her out for coffee if you know you like her.
2006-08-20 09:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u liking a gal is all legal thers nothin wrong in it ,u luv her then good thats nice . but thinkin of snatchin a gurl away will not help ,u got to do a lot of work to get her have u spoken to her or no? if ur afraid that she will get it all wrong then sorry dude u r not good friends. sorry if it hurts but u should try all ur best to get her attention but do it with honesty and notjust to woo her. be urself and dont try to meddle in her present relation its not nice. u do ur job and dont expect her to reciprocate......
my idea if she is a good friend of urs then u got to tell her how u feel because good friends dont mind.. :)
all the best
ps: how i know, i have been through this
2006-08-20 10:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by phrozen phire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe what u are experiencing is the "loss" of a good friend cos u moved further away from her...
Only time will tell if it is LOVE...
2006-08-20 09:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tracy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you should tell her then let her decide its the only thing.
Good Luck Dude
And I hope she says yes for you
let me know what happens just e-mail me at: triplej5501@yahoo.com
2006-08-20 10:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jared 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has another b/f, then there is no use. You are off from her list, till he dumps her, after everything is over.
She is not reliable and I advise you to find another one, who really cares about you.
No best freinds ever change their partners.
2006-08-20 11:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she feels the same way about you, then its fine tell her.
But it can ruin your Longterm friendship. Do you wanna risk that as you sound like you not even sure how you feel about her, intimately??
2006-08-20 10:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hooked , tell her that you love her regardless of the consequences .
2006-08-20 09:57:33 · answer #9 · answered by rocknrod04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel about her Maybe she will break up with her bf
2006-08-20 10:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋