my g/f of two years to have sex with me? We have been dating for close to 2 years now and prior to that we were friend for 2 yrs. We have both "been" with partners once before in the past. I really love her alot! I want to experience that special bond with her. She wants to wait though 'til we are married to have sex. I have been patient and understanding for this long and will continue to do so until the moment she is ready. Does any one have advice though as to how I can change her mind and for us to have sex a lot sooner rather than later?
2006-08-20 02:40:43 · 7 answers · asked by clark k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Respect her wishes. Ask her to marry you. Get married. Have a great honeymoon.
I'm hoping you both know that there are many ways to express intimacy without actually having intercourse. If you don't have ANY intimacy, you need to seriously rethink the above.
2006-08-20 02:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes; I'm with the girls on this one!
Gee! You've known this girl for 4 years; what's another 6 months gonna hurt??
In many ways, you are so lucky.
She probably knows that true love is best expressed when the whole deal is properly sealed.
You've built respect for each other sufficient for true love that has kept you together w/o pre-marital sex, why spoil it for her now??
It's because of your friendship and respect that you have lasted.
Why don't you Seal the whole commitment by getting married, and have the Greatest Honeymoon, as someone else said.
You two are a rarity.
Enjoy your rare Honeymoon.
2006-08-20 09:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by dr c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can be patient until she's ready then why are you trying to pressure her into it sooner. She's decided to wait and you should respect her. Just because she's been with someone before you doesn't mean she OWES it to you. I think it's great that she wants to wait. I just hope she doesn't change her mind because you can't wait.
2006-08-20 09:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by net_grl79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it, because you agreed to wait so it will only confuse her. You should have thought about that two years ago. If you really love her marry her and all will go well!
2006-08-20 09:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by THICKCHICK426 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to have sex with you out of wedlock then you'll have to respect her wish. Either propose to her or leave her and find another gf who can offer you unrestrained carnal pleasures in each and every direction and manner.
2006-08-20 09:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurry up and get married. Problem solved.
2006-08-20 10:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
would be a better idea to respect her in that matter.
2006-08-20 09:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by ES 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋