this boy and i have been friends for a couple years now and now he has a crush on me? hes to shy to ask me out... should i ask him out? what should i do?
2006-08-20 02:34:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A good way to do it is to give him hints that you would like to go out with him. Such as hinting you would like to see a certain film at the movies or you would like to go to a theme park, anything that can give him a good reason to ask you out. Then things should naturally develop from there.
2006-08-20 02:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Phil-A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do like him back, you don't necessarily have to ask him. If you have a trusted male friend, you can tell that guy to tell the guy with a crush on you that you would be interested. With that information in mind, maybe your friend will finally ask you out.
On the other hand several things to worry about. If things work for awhile and then later on they don't, will that destroy your friendship? Maybe he's worried about that and he really values you more as a friend than as a girlfriend. Would you be able to think of him as a boyfriend or would he still be your close friend?
Are you usually surrounded by a group of girls? That can be intimidating for a guy as he wouldn't want to ask in front of so many people.
Give him some opportunities to tell you face to face. Maybe at a dance, ask him to slow dance nor embarassing for either of you as it's not a date, it's just a dance between two friends at that point. Or go out for a ice cream or a snack together. I hope things work out.
2006-08-20 04:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now that all depends, here are a few questions to ask yourself...
Are you two really good friends, that maybe starting a relationship would in the end mess up that friendship?
Do you like this boy also?
Even know he is shy, would he be a fun date?
If you answered YES to theres questions, then that is your answer.... If not, you just have to let your heart decide
2006-08-20 02:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out
2006-08-20 02:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not. Go ahead and ask him out. It doesn't really have to be a formal date at all. Just ask if he'd like to hang out or hit the mall or the movies and go from there.
2006-08-20 02:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him then ask him out. I asked my husband out because i could tell that he was to shy and scared to ask me, so i asked him.
GO FOR IT
2006-08-20 02:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like him then u should ask him out because he is just waiting for u to make the first move
2006-08-20 02:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no girl should ask a guy out...he should be the one asking you! because if he really likes you, he will not chicken out! and also, you didn't include if you like him back. i mean, what's the sense of asking someone if that someone doesn't like you. so if he do ask you out, you should think first...good luck! =)
2006-08-20 02:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by darlyn_chua13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know 4 sure that he has a crush on u then ask him does he wanna catch a bite to eat or see a movie.. then u'll have plenty of time to talk..
2006-08-20 02:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out to dinner and test his feelings towards you over a nice big meal. If he pays for it stick to him, if he goes Dutch then he's a cheapskate, dump him.
2006-08-20 02:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋