Is there real men out there?? That tell you straight up when they not interested in emotional involvement, but just sex??? I find that most men have a difficulty doing , instead they string you alon, say all nice things, and then disappear? Am I right ladies and GEnts
2006-08-20 02:17:16 · 18 answers · asked by blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, there are honost guys out there who aren't in it just for sex. i'm one of them. but, i'm taken. good luck
2006-08-20 02:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will say this again today, Men are immature about a lot of things. Another part of the problem is that we no longer have a set of basic morals. Issues of a sexual nature ( be it your style of dress, or actual intercourse and every thing in between) have become so lax. At one point it was unheard of to have sex with just somebody (which doesn't make sense now that we know so much about stds). Sex had a meaning, intamacy. Today its just dirty, instant gratification for a good number. I think that we ladies need to realize that we are once again becoming objects to men, and stop enabling or indulging that behavior. Maybe we can take some pride in ourselves and say no more. Ask for a commitment as if were a ticket, no ticket no show. Remember You are worth waiting for, and if he don't want to kick him to the curb. If your horniness is an obsticle with this, go buy yourself a toy, does a better job than a selfish man would do anyhow.
2006-08-20 09:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by girlnoladrea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right about most men, especially the younger ones. I am fortunate to have one of the good ones, and I know that he finds other women desirable, wishes sometimes that I would just shut up, and isn't always impressed by the meals I prepare or the outfits I wear. We're both honest with each other, are not always nice to each other, but we're deeply in love after 8 years of marriage.
Tell a man you're interested in that all YOU want is a sexual relationship, and watch him pursue you. Guys are weird like that.
2006-08-20 09:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all know the answer to that, some are(like me) and some aren't. Now to be honest with you i would never involve myself in a just sex relationship. How can you have sex(if that's what you want to call it) with someone without developing at the very lease some kind of feelings for that person? If you can that does not make you good or bad,right or wrong,better or worst than me.It's just something i prefer not to do. We all have to live life the way we see it.
2006-08-20 09:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there dishonest men out there? Absolutely! There are plenty of dishonest and bad men out there. Just as there are just as many dishonest and bad women out there. Men play their games and women play theirs. That is why they call it the DATING GAME!
When you are dating men, you need to ask the important questions on the first dates. Get to know them and what they want in a woman. First you need to define what you want in a relationship with a man. Don't be afraid to tell him this when he asks. If your relationship goals aren't in tune, then you are not right for each other and you move on to the next one.
For that matter, date many men as you can until you find the right one for you. Bet the field and increase your yield. Increase the odds of you finding someone right for you. And for God's sake don't sleep with anyone until you have dated someone at least for a good while.
2006-08-20 09:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are. Im on second marriage. What I dont like is when they leave out things they know you wont like or dont tell the whole story. Most men on dating sites will say what they do want but there were always be liars and losers. Keep trying. Let them write to you first. Dont chase men.
2006-08-20 09:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not, most certainly. If all men were dishonest and sex-starved then there wouldn't be any happy relations in this world. Get yourself a decent male friend who can rid you of such complex thinking.
2006-08-20 09:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If men tell women that they only want sex they usually don't get sex. And with sex as the goal they will do what has to be done to get there...
2006-08-20 09:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by ak2005ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honest men are with whores and women who treat them badly. For some reason they like bad women like that
2006-08-20 09:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there r honest men out here
2006-08-20 09:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u fined the right guy and he tell u every think then yes
2006-08-20 09:23:08 · answer #11 · answered by rob l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋