I've never been out with someone before. & she personly knows me as a friend
2006-08-20 02:10:56 · 16 answers · asked by The Sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we know each other personly, I'm 12 and so is she. she knows I fancy her
2006-08-20 02:20:37 · update #1
Well best relationships start off as friendships but you have to make sure she likes you too or else you will ruin your friendship. I think you should tell her how you feel and that you don't want to be just friends. Its a gamble but it might be worth it. As I don't know your age I cant really give you much advice but if you want you can contact via IM. Hope this helps.
2006-08-20 02:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ziggy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHen you say you want to ask her out, do you mean on a date or do you mean being exclusive in a relationship?
Since you haven't established anything but a friendship, you will need to test the waters and see if there is anything else there in her head. SOmetimes showing extra personal interest and calling her on the phone will give her an idea that you are looking for more than casual friendship. Take it slow. Don't make demands or insist she become your girlfriend right now.
Suggest you meet at a movie or another event through school. Talk with her, Eat lunch with her. Meet up out her locker. Greet her in the morning. Come find her before you leave school.
In short - make some effort to demonstrate that you are interested and then invite her to do something with you. And pay for her of course.
2006-08-20 02:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by DD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard isn't it....wait for the right time, don't dither..and ask straight out...just take a deep breath and say it.......lol, try to use positive words...make sure she knows you think its a date and also that you really like her, and have the dosh to finance the date and an idea where to go that you will both enjoy...good luck.
2006-08-20 02:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) how old are you?
2) she knows you as a friend. you feel safe with her. tell her you like her as more than a friend and would like to date her. be prepared for whatever answer she says. If she says no to you guys being more than just friends, thank her and don't lose it. Appreciate her friendship as is and leave it alone. If she says yes, then you will be happy right along with her, yes?
2006-08-20 02:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and say. " I really like you and I would like to take you out (for say) to dinner and a movie." Open the doors for her to get in and out of the car and then see how things go. If they go good then after your date is done open her car door and walk her to her front door and say," I had a wonderful time and I would like to see you again." Ask her if you can give her a kiss good night if she says yes kiss her and then ask her out again again right there on the spot.
2006-08-20 02:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by michigan_redneck_lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ***** foot it, start off by asking her to go get some coffee of java or some shite, if she says yes, go from there, get into conversation, then ask when u feel its right, "do you think we'll ever be more then friends?" from there ur on ur own. g'luck
2006-08-20 02:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by Priest of Anubis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like being told they are beautiful. Take her out to a nice place to eat or something and then ask her out.
2006-08-20 02:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u r very interested in her. tell her that she is beautiful charming, take her to a nice restaurant & then ask her.
2006-08-20 02:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by sardar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come right out and ask her.
2006-08-20 02:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say to her lets go straight to bed now.
2006-08-21 05:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋