i broke up w/ my bf last 3 months,now i missed him.....even his phone calls and his smile and his laugh and his voice and his guitar and all about him......i'm afraid to tell him that i still miss or LOVE him because he might doesnt love anymore...i'm afraid to be hurt...i wanted to restore our relationship again but i'm afraid...we still send e-mails but just a short message like "hows life?" & "how are you?"........pleasssssse help me.....
2006-08-20 01:39:30 · 12 answers · asked by zytka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really want to know tell him how you feel and say if you don't feel the same way you will understand. Then you will know where he stand and you can move on with your life. You will find some some that treat you like he did or even better. So just tell him.
2006-08-20 02:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by yoda_0072002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach him and express your love for your boy friend in person.Why should you be afraid to tell him that you missed him and still love him.The very fact that he is still in contact with you is that he is waiting for you to make the move because you broke up with him.So make amends.You have hurt him badly and now you are afraid of being hurt. Just spare a second of the pain and hurt your bf had gone through.Its not too late.Go and express your love and how much you missed him.Even your boyfriend will be having fond memories of you im sure.Act fast call him but meet in person not over phone as it will enable to express your feeling more and he will definitely see the old love back in your eyes when you meet personally.So hurry!Good luck.
2006-08-20 08:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you broke up with him... there must have been a reason. Has that reason been resolved? If not it is best you move on. If it has been resolved (and if the reason you broke up wasn't because you just wanted to skank around) then send him a short email saying. Do you want to get back together again? Don't say you love him or miss him, just state that one simple sentence. See what happens. Ask only once.
2006-08-20 08:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either move on with your life or step up the size of your reply e-mails to include : I still think about you,missing you more & more,why not call me next time,can i call you?,do you still care for me?come over and play for me sometime. Just start small untill you can talk with him and tell him how you feel. Good luck.
2006-08-20 08:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st think about why u broke up in the 1st place and then figure out if it'll be worth it tryna rekindle what u had.. but that's natural to miss those things but just cause u miss those things that doesnt' mean u have to get back w/him..
maybe u should see what else is out there.. u have heard of the word moving on and dating right? broaden ur horizons instead of moving backwards..
2006-08-20 08:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate. He is probably afraid too. If he doesn't feel the same way at least you tried. If you end up feeling rejected that's okay, rejection makes us stronger in the longterm. There are also plenty more fish in the sea so never give up finding someone compatible.
2006-08-20 09:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to tell him because if you don't it will just build up and u may tell the wrong person and then everyone will find out.But telling him is better than keeping it to yourself anyway but I know how it is good luck
2006-08-20 08:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kayla T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know unless you tel him. who knows he may be feeling the same way.
Personally i never date someone again after breaking up, you broke up for a reason, move forward and start a new chapter in your life.
2006-08-20 08:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by quikone2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest. Moving on... If he doesn't like you, why push yourself back on. You are only having a memory relapse which is creating these emotional feelings. You are only setting yourself up to get hurt.
2006-08-20 08:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him...U won't noe till u try young lady...Just confess it and tell him ur feelings..Also think once agn..why did u guys break up? N if he has a girlfriend currently,jus say "Hey..I am sayin; tis not askin; u to break up wit ur girlfriend.But seriously n truthfully,I still _________ u..."
2006-08-20 08:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by ms_rar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋