Please, help me understand her?

Question

This girl is a friend of mine, and she came to my house three days ago. While here, we played games, but afterward, I wanted to show her something on my computer. She leans on my bed and up against me. I pulled away thinking it was an accident. Later when we were done the game, everyone left the room, but she said she wanted to stay behind for a few minutes. We talked alone about a few things, and she wanted to see pictures of some friends from college. We then went upstairs where she did not hang with me for a while but seemed to hover over whenever something interesting came up. She was also talking about and searching online for guys in my house. WTF?? She keeps telling me that she wants a certain type of guy last time I saw her, and now she is looking them up while here. Is she trying to make me jealous? She also told me to marry off my younger brother who I think likes her a bit. What is she trying to tell me there?

Answer 1

Sounds like she likes you a bit and is hoping you'll make some kind of a move. It also sounds like you're not interested; it might be kindest to let her know that.

Answer 2

Good luck! She sounds like a standard women that is sending completely bizzare signals that are impossible to read from a guy. It sounds quite possible she wants you to make the moves on her - so you may as well try to flirt and plant a kiss on her next time she does that sort of thing and see what happens. If she is horrified - you are clear since she IS sending you signals to go for it. Good luck - and trust me - women are a mystery to figure out.

Answer 3

The girl is not sure of her priorities but give it a while, like a week. If she keeps doing this than it's not to make you jealous. She wants something from you. Talk to her more or something. You have to remember she was laying on your bed. Not many girls will do that if they don't want you to give them more attention for different reasons than normal.