i am a 23year old boy with a girlfriend for 3 years.
i love her and she does love me.
but it's a while i seem not liking to make love with her.
on the otherhand i have a great passion for other woman.
i have a real struggle here.to be faithful or to do what i desire for new sexual experiments.will i be guilty if i go with others?or i have the right to have more experiments?should i leave her or stay with her?sepehr_sha at yahoo
2006-08-20 01:19:43 · 9 answers · asked by Stephan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly dude, you have to have some kind of passion for the person that you're with. Every girl wants to feel sexy and desired, and by holding onto her with a lie you are denying both of you the chance to find somebody real. Get with the girl you want, and give her the chance to find somebody that wants her - otherwise the'll be a lot of resentment on both sides. Trust me on this one.
2006-08-26 22:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when is a 23 year old a boy? Sorry, don't buy it.
Men and women have been attracted to each other and just because you are dating or married to someone doesn't mean you're dead. You will continue to find yourself attracted to others throughout your lifetime. Guess what, the same goes for your woman -- she can find herself attracted to other men throughout her life too. The question that remains: will either of you act on your attraction to another or stay true to who you are with?
Ah...therein lies the drama.
2006-08-20 01:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think as humans the temptations will always exist. man was not programmed to be monogomous-it is a CHOICE. this is not a black or white answer. you are still very young and got involved at a young age and may think you are in love. it sounds like now is not the right time for you to be making this kind of commitment. don't cheat or lie. be honest with yourself and your girlfriend.
2006-08-20 01:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hy, no one can tell you what to do, beacuase this is only about what you like. You must talk with your girlfriend , and tell her everything, and i mean everything, and find a solution thats suitable for both of you. You must not be afraid to tell her , beacuase if she loves you ,things will work out just fine. you both have to make it work (including new experiences), if she is not okay having this conversation , and she is starting a fight instead of understand you , you should find someone else....
2006-08-20 01:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by savi_dark_raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU TRULY LOVE THIS WOMEN THEN YOU NEED TO
BE HONEST WITH HER ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL, BECAUSE
IF YOU DONT YOU WILL START TO CHEAT ON HER. WHICH
SOUND LIKE YOU WANT TO DO NOW IS START GOING
OUT WITH OTHER WOMEN.. SO GET IT OUT IN THE OPEN
SHE DESERVE THAT IF NOTHING ELSE.
2006-08-27 18:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya u will feel guilty if u go with some1 else if u loved her trully
2006-08-20 01:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by ravi s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.it's only lust for that other woman,if you really love her,you should be faithful and you should like everything about her,dude
2006-08-20 01:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by cutiebhaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your wanting to move on you love stinks grow up
2006-08-20 01:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** whereever u like tht is natural . everything else is artificial .
2006-08-20 01:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by muna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋