I am seeing this guy for 3 years ( it is kind of sex-friendship, but officially we are not a couple -both single-and no one knows about us seeing eachother though we have common friends...a little secret;), and he wants to make a video. I don't see anything wrong in it, but I am just terrified someone may see it by accident or something. what do you think about it? have you ever done it?
the guy is trustworthy so I am not affraid he will show it to anyone but you just never know...
2006-08-20 01:08:57 · 37 answers · asked by ywe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, too risky.
2006-08-20 01:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by starrynight1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you have really something serious going on, I advice not to do it. As you said, you never know. Relationships don't last forever, and if it would happen, hoping that it won't, you wouldn't like the thought of some stranger at that point having such a video tape of you... Not to think of where it could end up going, friends, internet... Today is not difficult for such things to spread. Look at the the many celebrity sex tapes.... And they know how to hide their stuff!
2006-08-20 01:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh..I wouldn't be making any videos with someone you don't plan on being with. Who knows what will happen with u 2, you could end up in a weird argument and the tape displayed on the evening news..If you do make it with him..take total control over the tape..you keep it. It's ok to do anything in the privacy of your home but you know someday that tape might come back to haunt you..prevent it now!
2006-08-20 01:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TODAY you don't see anything wrong with it, but TOMORROW ?
As always, there is a B-U-T...isn't there ?
Your brain (if any) + experience + a dash of common sense (mistakenly so-called, due to its extreme rarrity). all these suggest "Don't do it".
Something which appears somewhat okay now, may come to bite you later, with you powerless to stop it.
There are some who sell the stuff to the sleeze market for a few quids, too. Not that I'm implying, mind you.
Use your upper regions...like your HEAD.
2006-08-20 01:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking us lot probably indicates a no here. There is nothing wrong with making your own little video, but you have to be 100% at ease with it first!
If you want to but are worried, then tell him yes but YOU keep the video, not him!
Anyway, if anyone sees it, who cares! You say yourself you are both single, and anyone seeing it will just get a cheap thrill!
2006-08-20 01:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So....you make this video with this guy, then down the road you find a super sweet guy to marry and have a family.....then this guy comes back around with this neat little video of you, or better yet, he puts it on the net for all the pervs to see.....don't do it because you're right......you just never know!
2006-08-20 01:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have done and it was shown 'by accident' at my birthday party
I had to run to the tv to switch it off as e my young nephew was holding the video control, watching me in action!
Still love filming though just keep them safer
2006-08-20 01:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by pulldeplug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should make a video of something you're calling "Making Love". Cos I tell you baby, if he wants to make a video hez NOT "Making Love" hez just humping you and wants to go a little further cos hez not getting enough.
2006-08-20 01:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by Finally Creamed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN you break up - and you will then he will show it to TONS of people. If you were in a committed relationship I would say, "Go for it!" But you are not AND it will come back to haunt you. I still have a tape out there I can't get back - and he promised to give it to me. So there you go.
2006-08-20 01:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take a chance.....
d guy must b trustworthy...... but if the video falls into wrong hands then ur secret relaionship is no longer secret...... u might regret it...so y take a chance. enjoy making love in secret :D
2006-08-20 01:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by AmbY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alarm bells are ringing here...
Hummm - why does he want to video it ???
Also if you do fall out you may see it being mailed to friends or potential boyfriends.
I am in a stable relationship so yeah - I would film myself and my wife but just go with how you feel (gut feeling). By asking here I think you feel a bit uneasy about it too...
Good luck :)
2006-08-20 01:11:28 · answer #11 · answered by Ade 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋