I cheated on my boyfriend last night, and I think he knows, he left me a messege saying we need to talk. but i still want to be with him, what can i tell him?
2006-08-20 00:20:44 · 20 answers · asked by gpdw1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you wanted to be with him then you should not have cheated.Let him do the same to you and see how you would handle it.You will be lucky if he takes you back..but i am willing to bet he doesnt trust you anymore.
2006-08-20 00:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cheated on your boyfriend you don't really love him or care for him if u need to go out and explore let him know that u are not ready to stay with one person yet u should at least repect him and not hurt him.
u should also be staight up honest with him that u cheated on him and that u are sorry if u are and if ur love is strong u guys will make it work otherwise just give eachother space
once u cheat on someone the trust is gone and its hard to trust again after someone is hurt like even if he was to give u another chance it will be in the back of his mind
so just be honest with him and tell him how u feel
2006-08-20 07:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the truth.
Don't delude yourself into thinking it might work out. All it takes is one screw-up to destroy trust, and after that, there's nothing left.
So just hope for the best and prepare for the worst, and expect that if he does decide to work it out, you'll be on a very short leash for a while.
2006-08-20 07:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh what are you gonna say oh im sorry i was drinking i wasnt thinking??? you cheated... there nothing you can say but tell the truth.... and if you still want to be with him than why would you cheat??? ONCE YOU CHEAT ITS VERY PROBABLE that is will happen again sooner or later.
2006-08-20 07:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
c this world is still biased .if a guy is found cheating he is excused many times by v girls only but wen it cums to us they just wont let us go unpunished.if he himself wanna talk then i feel he mgt not break it up wid u.i hav never cheated on my bf so cant tel what excuses u can giv but cheating at any cost from eitrher partners is not acceptable.best of luck
2006-08-20 07:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you didnt mean to but dont say anything unless he brings it up like in the movies. But cheating is very bad!
2006-08-20 07:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by Blitzkrieg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you asking for advice or a good lie? the best thing that you could tell him is the truth! that you are not ready for a steady relationship and you wish to screw around, that way you don't make a fool of him for doing every thing he can to make you happy .
2006-08-20 07:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by knowitall4now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the tureth and be aunist with him.and rember your the one who did wrong not him.and if he gets upset rember he has all the right reason for being up set.which if he loves you then yall can work threw it,but tell him what caused you to do it and maybe the promble can be sloved and yall can stay together.
2006-08-20 07:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by bigmomma s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth.
I can tell you now that he'll guess if you don't (I did when it happened to me and it's not too hard to spot the changes in someone you're close to)
Learn from this and move on
2006-08-20 07:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both need to move on. You would not have cheated if you felt ANYTHING for him and he will never trust you again. Nor should he - you don't deserve it.
2006-08-20 07:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋