now im gettin married wid nother guy he's very cute n sensitive i decided not 2 tell this.......will he know about this when we will do sex?
2006-08-19 23:41:23 · 20 answers · asked by COROLLA 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The only thing that would set him off to the fact is that your hymen has been broken.He will only know that if he looks at th sheets .But if you had sex only a few times with a b/f then it will feel the same to him,-meaning that the vaginal muscles are still tight and will feel like you are a virgin.
By the way--You didn't have sex with your fiancee,but you did with the other guy?Whats up with that??
2006-08-19 23:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people who are posting most of the answers are right. There is really very little way for him to detect if your hymen was broken the night he had sex with you or not. Hell, you could have broken your hymen with a tampon or something....
If you are really concerned with this, there are ways to be deceptive. But do you really want to start a marriage out with deception.
As for the person who stated that virgins behave in a "particular " way is not very experienced. A properly aroused woman will move and respond accordingly. A woman who is not will look like it,
2006-08-23 01:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by goldenlifev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not necessary to have sex with someone for Hymen getting broken . Some kind of strenuous physical activity can cause braking of hymen in many girls especially sports stars. Wedding is a commitment more than physical relationships mental relationship mattres in a married life. Who knows your guy is a virgin? He can not make out that whether you are a virgin or not while having sex with you? Don't worry, get prepared for a wonderful married life...After all , past is past ,think of future!! all the best!!!
2006-08-20 00:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by deamer boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't notice, don't worry. As many others in this topic said, the hymen can break before marriage and there is no neccesary bleeding. Some girls even don't have hymen. Just look up a few medical websites if it reassures you...He will not get to know. If he does know about the bleeding, just tell him that there need not be and so on, and he will be impressed about how much you know and not ask anything else.....
Good Luck with your marriage
2006-08-21 03:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not necessary to have sex with someone for Hymen getting broken . Some kind of strenuous can cause braking of hymen in many girls. mental relationship mattres in a married life. Who knows your would be a virgin? he can make out while having sex, provided he knows about the reason what hymen is about,
Don't worry, have a wonderful married life
2006-08-20 00:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by samusdo s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will know that your cherry was popped but you could lie about how it happened. You could cover with a lie, but do you really want to start the relationship off that way. Just tell him that you were with someone else before. He will understand that, but if he find out that you tried covering it up, he isn't going to trust you.
2006-08-20 02:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can know if he will concious about your hymen and bleeding. The only thing prevents u is liying with him. Never tell him about your past sexual relationship if u want better married life.
Cheers
2006-08-20 20:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sahil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he won't know unless he expects you to bleed, you already bled, he calls you on it and you blush. I personally believe in being honest.
If you have chosen not to be, know that at least with this you can trick him, but other things will come up in your life where you won't be able to do so.
2006-08-20 00:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dear he will come to know about this boz while sex for the first time bleeding occurs and that's only once in the whole life...never again that bleeding will occur and i think ur husband will come to know about his .........that u had had sex with someone else earlier!!
2006-08-19 23:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by tania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not going to know that and dont tell him if u want happy married life.
2006-08-20 02:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by chdman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋