so...ladies..honestly....is it really better to be the bad boy to get with ya...or stay the nice guy
2006-08-19 23:15:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
better be who you are whether you are nice or not. It's a lot more disgusting to be someone who you are not...
DOn't change for the better for one person but change for the better for yourself...
2006-08-19 23:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nice guys are sweet but get taken advantage of much to often. Women are notorious for using and abusing men. They'll take your money your sex, your heart, and your money, when there finished they'll leave you for the jerk. Now of course not all women are that way, but you can bank on the fact that all of the beauties are and even if there not beautiful in your eyes but they are in there eyes they'll still take u. Women are creatures of mischief and drama, they crave it. Men just want food, sex & love and enough money to get more of all three lol. Men will give until it hurts them, there wallets and there hearts. Women on the other hand will take you until it hurts and when you have nothing left to give they'll move on. Thats the law of nature. So be the nice guy, sweet and loving, but when your with a woman take your brain out of the bottom head and put in back in the head on your shoulders and use it to see the lady for what she really is. Then embrace her or run like hell lol good luck hon stay nice and "wise". Grandma Rosey
2006-08-19 23:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by ROSEY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY view as a 'loser' nice guy - i got dumped by the girl of my dreams cos she wanted an exciting bad boy.....then she wanted me back after reasling she wanted someone 'caring'. But she was never interested in half the stuff she did with and for him....it was humiliating so i left her. We bad boys just get the empty sheels of the girls we once loved.
I then went through my phase of being 'bad' - i had my fun and when i tired of it, settled down with a girl - both of us are on the same page with same expectations from life.
i know its not the rosy answer you might expect, but its the only one that didnt break my heart again....and i got to enjoy some of the fun that was denied to me initially...
if you stay a nice guy always, you WILL miss out on the fun. your life as a nice guy will remain relatively dull always. So why not have some fun before you settle?
2015-09-07 02:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a nice guy, very mature age wise .Its better to be a nice guy ,but remember Nice Guys Come Last,, What the ladies say ?? I dont know
2006-08-19 23:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not feel like it some times, but ya it better to be the nice guy!!!!!! There are so few of them out there so if you are keep on being and don't let anyone put you down.. Here's to you for being a real....... man!!
2006-08-19 23:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by murphyslaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you will gain for being a bad boy is a bad reputation . people tend to stay clear of bad people so you decide, either be a bad boy and very unpopular
or be a good boy and be very popular
2006-08-19 23:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by lizella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am beginning to think it is some kind of "human ritual" to have games played, but not throughout the relationship. I have been studing this lately, and my son noticed this also. He dated a girl did everything nice, and she dumped him for a bad boy. Which dumped her, now she is coming back to my son, and after the broken heart, he isnt being as nice, and doesnt come to her beck and call, and she is bent over backwards chasing him. His philosyfy is now I'm not looking for Ms. Right, I'm looking for Ms. Right Now!
2006-08-19 23:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to stay the nice guy.
2006-08-20 02:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jessicer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself! Personally I cant stand guys who are too nice. They dont seem all man or something. Plus theyre too easy to walk over. I think we all need to be nice but its good to see a man to be a man, strong with his own opinion and views even if they dont agree allways with the woman in his life.
2006-08-19 23:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the nice guy. all the guys at my school are scum because they are the bad guys, I am with the nice guy the carin one, so dont change to a bad boy if u can hepl it doesn't matter how much it seams to attracked the oposite sex.
2006-08-19 23:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by Paint_Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the long run talking, "the nice guy" why you might ask. Because they are the ones that end up being successful.
"The bad boy" end up being a loser in the long run.
2006-08-19 23:21:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋