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My girlfriend and I have been together a while now and I dont keep anything from her. I leave my mobile phone out so she can use it when she wants to and I havent got anything to hide from her. I deleted numbers of my ex-girlfriends as when we split I didnt want anything to do with them. The other day one of them randomly text me saying she still loved me and how much she missed me. My girlfriend saw this and went ballistic. I told her to check my mobile bill which she did and saw no dodgy numbers but still wont talk to me. Ive offered to change my number if thats what she wants. Ive never done anything behind her back or anything to hurt her. How can I get her to talk to me again?

2006-08-19 23:12:15 · 16 answers · asked by petetheman 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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You have done nothing wrong. With her lack of trust in you along with her own insecurities, she quite clearly has things that she needs to deal with. These insecurities may have come from the way she has been treated in the past.

You already seem to be doing alot to try an re-assure her. What you could do is sit down with her, text you're ex saying that you are happy with your new partner and do not want you're ex to contact you again.

Dont forget, you have done absolutely nothing wrong here.

2006-08-19 23:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by Peakey 3 · 1 0

First, you need to sort out things with your ex who sent you the message. Tell her you just are not interested and block her number, because she only sent that message as she is jealous. Now, this is the part where you have to beg your parents for cash- as you will be needing a lot of $ to buy your girlfriend flowers chocolates movie tickets and so on. Good luck

2006-08-19 23:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by jessie illinois 2 · 0 0

If your gf really loved and cared about you and was bothered about your relationship she would have given in by now.

If there is trust there is no need for the tantrums, if you are both happy with eachother your relationship will last. If she does not back down then maybe your relationship was not meant to be.

2006-08-19 23:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by Zoe 3 · 1 0

She flipped out on you because of something that you didnt do and had no control over...hmmmm.....Its her issue with self confidence. Learn now my yound friend. this will not go away.Next time she will flip if a grocer talks to you trying to sell you jellybeans! Assertively tell her to relax and tell the old gf not to do it again, or change #s

2006-08-19 23:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by James S 4 · 0 0

Show her the text you sent back saying how happy you are with your new girlfriend and that you wish your ex all the best for the future and hope she finds someone new.

2006-08-19 23:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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2016-11-05 05:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Steph007ess has the right and most sensible idea....give it a go, you have nothing to loose or hide remember!.

2006-08-19 23:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i had that happen i had to block the number an tell her what was going on she needs to listen to you then maybe she will understand

2006-08-19 23:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by sicivic05 4 · 0 0

these kind of things do happen but she should really have trusted your word...........talk to her even if she won't talk to you, surely she knows how much she means to you........ if not keep telling her how much she means to you..... good luck...... you shouldn't have to change your phone number your girlfriend should trust you..........

2006-08-19 23:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by fossil 3 · 0 0

difficult one this... Dump her - tell her if she doesn't believe you then go your separate ways. (during that time change your number and give it to her of course)..

She will come round eventually... women need constant reassurance.

p.s your random x - tell her to f**k off

2006-08-20 00:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by scorpion queen 3 · 1 0

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