Until our child's 1st birthday then we get married. I'm not pregnant yet!!! How come he responds like this??? confused!!!
2006-08-19 22:50:31 · 16 answers · asked by Shybe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Dont be upset nor confuse. The more u get angry and disappointed, the more u will feel hurt. Sit down and talk to him, find out whats going on his mind. Have a heart to heart talk, perhaps he may or may not have a reason to postpone the marriage. But the end results solely lies on you. Always remember, what is yours will always be yours and if it is not then dont push it or force or else u would get hurt miserably. It is better to realise the good and bad earlier than to live in misery all your life. While it may be hurting, time will heal all problems.
2006-08-20 05:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by lanks20032003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your boyfriend. Why is it important to get married now? If you think you want to have a child with him, by the time the child is one year old, you should be ready to make a marriage committment. By the way, if you are over age 30 - my answer would be different.
2006-08-20 04:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by DetailSpaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you won't give him any more sex until you two are married. If he wants to wait until you have a kid to get married I would think there is something go on when he is not around you. I would say move on but if you two really love each other then get married and have kids but no kids until you are married.
2006-08-20 02:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by yoda_0072002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can fully understand your boyfriend. i've got been telling my gf i might marry her for 2 years now. i admire her specifically else; although, i'm no longer able to propose yet. Why? via fact a million. i choose to be financially sturdy. and a pair of. via fact i choose to propose in basic terms some months earlier easily marrying her. i do no longer choose to propose now and marry in 2 years, i think of it does not make experience. it rather is why i'm waiting and while the time is sturdy, i will make the suited notion. And marry her quickly afterwards, like it rather is meant to be.
2016-09-29 11:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,my boyfriend is the same way.I want to get married and he says we should wait,until things get settled.But,your man is being so insecure.Why wait until your pregnant? He has some issues.I think you should talk to him about this.cause u cant like something like this get in your way of getting married.Cause women only have a certain amount of time to find the right guy.
Good luck girl.let me know how it goes.
2006-08-19 23:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well baby girl, the last thing(that is if it makes the count) that you want is to spend your life in a miserable 'holy' marriage right? so dont push that dude into marrying you,until the time is great. you shouldnt marry because the time is right but because you are ready for that. no matter how desperate you might be,please hold your horses!
2006-08-19 23:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to get married. What a jerk saying he would get married on your child's first birthday! I wouldn't have a child with an idiot that this.
2006-08-23 06:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know - that does seem like a really odd response and an odd time to want to get married. Ask him why he wants to wait until that time in particular.
2006-08-19 22:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah maybe he's cheating on you and mistaken u for another girlfriend.. maybe he really wants to have u noe what with u first
then get married.. Well, i guess he's not ready to commit afterall
;) wish u all the best!
2006-08-19 22:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by Nicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
childs first birthday CONFUSSING well i think he want to know how it would feel to be a father and before he gets married he just want to see if he should .
2006-08-19 23:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋