I am in love with a girl who is my colleague in the office. It’s been seven months now with her at the office. She is beautiful & is cute, chirpy,sensitive,intelligent by nature who likes to mingle around well with people around her .On the other hand People say I am humble,polite,sweet,caring,helpful,sensitve,Intelligent and an Introvert.The girl has her own sad past experiences in family with her parents being separated from early childhood.She found a beautiful , sensitive and very caring friend in me as she discussed about her past experiences and the moments & thoughts that we shared when we were together. We both miss each other badly at times we aren’t in the office and it gets difficult to work without each other. We love each others views about life as we had quite similar past experiences about our lives. We both are spiritualistic & feel incomplete without each other.
The Girl says that she loves to be in my friendship & wants me to be her friend for her entire life; she says she wants to be single all her life and wants to do something for the society and animals. I have truly fallen in love with her and expressed my love thoughts with her through SMS, although she never replied those specific Love SMS’s.I also tried to tell her my feelings at times but she ignored to talk to me at those moments and move elsewhere as she could already judged that I am going to tell her about my feelings for her. I want her to be my soul mate and I believe my love for her has the patience and strength to prove its worth and I would always wait for her to accept me. I don’t know what stopping her to accept me as I know she also truly loves me & why is she ignoring the love part of our relationship and just wants to be a friend. It’s getting difficult for me to work as these things certainly affect my mind. Is this my one sided love for her or is the girl still needing some more time to think about me for her life. I would appreciate the reader’s genuine views on this…
2006-08-19 22:35:45 · 9 answers · asked by Neil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's love..
there's mutual understanding..
there's respect.
But a love that's platonic is just a one-way traffic and I'm afraid there's nothing much you can do about it but hope one day she'll get over her past and share the present with you in building up a better tomorrow.If you can be patient perhaps it will someday pay-off since as of now what's for you an open window is a closed door for her and that's not exactly very ideal to any of you.Based on her reactions,I'd presume she's just not ready to welcome that thought.
In every relationship starts friendship so if she can't reciprocate your love feeling at least be glad that what you're having is special and accept that perhaps not all relationships have brandnames and that we don't always need to put meanings in every actions we do and interpret all those unspoken languages.
who knows maybe in time love will find its way to her heart to bind into yours forever.
2006-08-19 22:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is so great about these women all the men in Yahoo obsess over? Girls like her are a dime a dozen. OK maybe a quarter now what with inflation and all... Anyways, If she doesn't want a relationship with you there is not much you can do other than move on or become a stalker and wind up in jail.
2006-08-19 22:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i advise u to ask &tell her cuz most of the time girlz r shy to show their feeling so there is posibility that she could love u and it sound like u 2 belong together so i think the best thing is tell her what u really feel abt her and that u can wait 4 her if she is not ready and if she says no just keep asking but is she got no hope just be friends as she wanted it but since she can change her mind keep asking GOOD LUCK BRO !!!
2006-08-19 22:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by AG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lustful pastime certainly would not even might desire to enter into it, besides the certainty that this is great. in case you do not have self belief me, look at it this form: What you assert is, in case you're taking the lust/pastime out of the dating, there is not any love. it somewhat is one great reason there are various of divorces; the keenness very mostly fizzles, and the enthusiasts are left to ponder whether they have been ever somewhat in love in the 1st place.
2016-10-02 07:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by mathisen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you probably dont wanna hear this but its prob just friendship. if she said she wants to be single then shes not interested in you. you two would probably make it off better as friends and im sure you dont wanna ruin your friendship w/ trying to start a realtionship
2006-08-19 22:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by rhsensation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either shes nt intersted in nethng more thn jus bein frnds or u need 2 giv her more tym..!! u sound really serious abt her, so y nt wait 4 a while n c?
2006-08-19 22:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLZ UNDERSTAND HER FEELINGS N DONT FORCE HER.B HER FRND ONLY.
2006-08-19 23:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by COROLLA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://lovethingy.com/
2006-08-21 16:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship
2006-08-19 22:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by xknyghtmayre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋