we are together for 2years but suddenly she fell in love with this guy and she told me they are coursemate but somepeople told me that they've been goingout together for months behind my back, so we end it.
2006-08-19 22:35:24 · 35 answers · asked by osa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, she's just using you obviously!..
2006-08-27 10:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♪♫♪♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♪♫♪♫♪♫♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you insane.
She sh i -t on you.
What you are reallly asking is if theres a chance u can get back together after she screwed you over.
Maybe, but you have to make sure she proves it, and not at some lame azz party where she is the center of attention.
If she aint asking you out alone, shes not caring about you.
honestly, she sound too immature. You dont need a gf anyway.. go get 3 gf's and spread yourself around.
2006-08-19 22:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi, it seems that your ex-girlfriend may be stringing the pair of you on. That's if the rumours you are going by are true. She may think that by seeing you both alternately, she can have the best qualities than she would find in one relationship and this is selfish on her part.
The best thing to do is let her get on with her new relationship and you find yourself someone that appreciates you. It seems to me that this is what she is worried about.
Good Luck.
2006-08-19 23:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by Dee-dee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when your enemy all of a sudden becomes so nice, watch your back. so it is said in africa.
by the way, are you just being a jealous guy? did she really cheat on you? make sure your facts are straight before you get finger pionting.
a lot of guys do that.
if she is really that guys girlfriend then you should not go for that party if he aint going.
2006-08-27 20:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by baby blu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ever heard of the phrase "playing devils advocate!"
;~}
But seriously beware of the ramifications. Ask yourself:
Is she use using you as a jealousy tool?
Would you want this to be anything more than an accompaniment?
If so, could you forgive and trust her?
2006-08-27 08:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN !dude...you only have one life ! who says live for strife !..ya haven*t gotta wife ?..so live your blooming life !..Theres plenty of women in this old world....but dude yoo need TRUST if you aint got trust in a realtionship then its doomed right from the start and buddy there aint many trust worthy chicks aboot these days they spread them selves a boot abit in more ways than one if yoo knows vot i mean and us dudes have know real respect for wimmin like zat its a shame women cant grasp that fact the dirty dogs !..slap in it all over ze shop..EH !
2006-08-27 20:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by ralphthemouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she told you that all they were just classmates then you should believe her at the end of the day a relatioship is built on trust if there's no trust then where would you end up?
2006-08-27 13:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Chocolatemac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn up to her party with your girlfriend and making sure that you keep your relationship with ex is strictly friends. If you 're single, just ask one of your female friends along and use the event to network and meet other singles. Making sure that you spend mimimum time with your ex.
2006-08-19 23:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by omoatayo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your choice if you go or not...but take a female partner with you and dont become the ball in a tennis game...first you then this other guy and now you again...if that's her intention
2006-08-19 22:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by felicitym2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the gal is a loser. u can go to the birthday party but as a friend. close ur mind to gettn bak together with her, believe me, she's the type u dont wann be close to
2006-08-19 22:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by klina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is obviously in to you again or she hasn't invited her new boyfriend yet. Go to the party as a friend, and have a good time. Life is full of surprises and opportunities and soon you'll meet another girl and move on.
2006-08-19 23:21:34 · answer #11 · answered by jessie illinois 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋